What are some books that would stop me from being infatuated with women?

I'm not sure if there is a book that can help specifically, but I try to keep my own infatuation with women under control by thinking to myself irl that I have no chance of ever getting any intimate contact with most women and then just indulge my obsession in private as a release.

I'm not sure how wel this has worked for me though. Seeing women as normal people makes me idolise and love them even more for some reason and I know that the sole reason I'm still a virgin is because I don't think of myself as being worthy of love due to me constantly putting myself down.

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I don't think you appreciate aesthetics very much. I'd rather be attracted to aesthetically pleasing faces than just feminine ones. She has a narrow face, luscious lips, rose petal shaped pretty eyes, small nose. Maybe I'm just not as masculine as you.

>What are some books that would stop me from being infatuated with women?
Playboy. Hustler. Jugs & Ammo.

One of the weirdest things I've noticed about Yea Forums incels is how infatuated they are with Instagram thots. Like going out of their way to look up and save SFW pictures of them and plaster them everywhere on the site.

It actually makes me feel better about cooming to outright whores. I feel more clear-headed about my intentions there than people pining over aloof models or e-thots.

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Attraction=/= aesthetics
Woman are literally the unaesthetic sex. If you are attracted to aesthetics you aren't even viewing and appreciating them with a clear mind.

anything written by robert greene

how is her face masculine? which trait of her face is distinctively masculine? the brow ridge? the hollow cheeks?

germanness

>freckles
>"marketed attractiveness"
pick one (1) and only one (1).

>One of the weirdest things I've noticed about Yea Forums incels is how infatuated they are with Instagram thots.
Back in the old days boys would to put up posters of pinup girls on their wall. I don't see how this is any different.

It's the pose/aura that creates the most jarring masculine energy, as with the makeup. But she does have fairly defined lines in general. Again, she gives off a slightly uncanny valley vibe and some concoction of a young feminine figure with the cynical independence that comes with being a modeled caricature. The facial expression, angle of the photography, it all compounds.

wipe your brain

>valley
What the fuck did they mean by this?

Probably something Schopenhauer said.

It's explained clearly hereShe looks like she could look quite feminine (she has a youthful appearance, freckling etc) but the makeup, expression and way she is posed increases the masculine effect, which is why is creates an uncanny valley sensation. This isn't the type of post wall thot typically posed like this and marketed as beauty. Think the hyper masculine "blonde bombshell" product.

>My personal likes and dislikes are immutable laws of the universe

Christ, everyone gets it, you don't find her attractive. Arguing about it is pointless, so shut up.

The only makeup she looks like she has on is that lip gloss and mascara
And I guess that emotionless/dazed look makes her look like one of those soulless thots from a magazine cover.
Her bent neck could be her trying to compensate for not wanting to raise her phone too high (because she's a weakling who isn't comfortable with its weight).

>>My personal likes and dislikes are immutable laws of the universe
Yes

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You might find it useful to read some popular or even basic fiction for and by women. Comparing their YA fiction is probably too easy a target.

Speaking for myself, I was on a kick about broadening my taste a few years ago trying to read stuff that was explicitly written for different audiences. In retrospect, it shouldn't have surprised me that I found a lot of it alienating, baffling in its sense of morality and aesthetic, and mostly a saddening experience.

Press S to sympathize
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Budd.

Hism.

Knowing women is normally the best cure to infatuation
Long term relationships are the best because you eventually get to see them with their guard down, and you can fully appreciate how puerile their thinking processes are.

I agree with this user. The more interact with them more you see them for what they are. Then you realise how dumb you were for saying "she's different." My biggest mistake was thinking that the more "intelligent" girls, that you would go to uni with for example, would somehow hold themselves differently. Then you get to know them well enough. Most retarded shit I have ever believed.

you are retarded, both of you.

how many people do you think are intellectual enough to shitpost on a literature board?

extremely tiny amount. it's not just women who are stupid. other men are just as stupid as those women.

no, you won't find a girl who is intellectual.

Women are beautiful, user. Your desire is correct. You only need to calm your own senses to realize they are human like you.

>how many prople do you think are
>intellectual enough to shitpost on a literature board?
It takes no intellect to shitpost, therefore the answer is "as many people in the world that are capable of shitposting anywhere"

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It's not so much the intelligence itself. It's more so being intelligent and therefore being self-aware enough to realise some of the shit you say, do and believe don't make sense. I wouldn't expect that from a stupid person. Is it not at least somewhat reasonable to expect a positive correlation between general intelligence and capacity for self-scrutiny and introspection?

And what this user said

Although it would be nice to have a girl who could discuss these matters with me, I fully understand that this is above them. I've never expected this in a girl.
My ex was a very smart girl in her academic persuits, but despite that, you could see that her thinking was still deficient. I don't want to use the overused "NPC" meme, but, rarely do women have any form of introspection. They struggle to disassociate themselves from a problem and work towards a new solution.

It’s a really endurance test for girl-crazy guys like us. Women and thoughts of women have been a great source of comfort for me whenever I feel unhappy and I get along with most women even better than I get along with men, but at the same time my worship and admiration of them means that I never feel worthy of them. I’ve been told that I have the potential to be a player, but I lack the confidence and also only want a relationship with a woman if it’s authentic. I’d be healthier without this mindset, but I love women too much to even want to stop.

I don’t like the e-thot types. Even I prefer outright whores because they’re honest about what they offer (some openly slutty girls end up being quite funny and based too even if their life is a trainwreck). Normal girls and sluts are the best; the e-thots feel like some uncanny inbetween.

She looks beautiful. I love well defined faces like hers. It makes her look very composed and elegant. Combine that with the homeliness of her freckles and you get a woman who looks powerful and confident, yet approachable. Baby-faced women do nothing for me.

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Stopped with boyish crushes after going on a few dates in my twenties after being completely repressed from doing so in my teens.
I've always been kind of emotionally retarded and/or idiosyncratic but I'm above average in looks which managed to get me the attention of a few women. When I say attention, I mean exactly that and nothing more. I've probably had ten or fifteen first dates that never resulted in a second. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 22.
I primarily attribute this to the scarcity of adept conversationalism. Most people do not talk, or rather, most people do not speak. They don't impart conjecture over things they're passionate about and things they contemplate the way that a website like Yea Forums would train you to be able to do.
Most people do not *do* anything, and the ones that do pursue creative endeavors for purposes of social self-obsession without any mind to what they do or why they do it.
It may have seemed at the time like I was interviewing these poor girls that were unfortunate enough to have given me the time of day (I was very particular that every first date would allow us the opportunity to talk without any inhibiting factors, usually coffee) because I really was.
The next time you catch yourself mooning over a cutie you see in the hallways at university or a pretty woman that works in adjacent offices that you think you have a crush on, just imagine the probable labor of explaining the book you're reading and why you like it if she was ever to grace you with the beckoning of a passing glimpse.

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take antidepressants for few months and hopefully they will fuck up your libido and make you kinda ansexual aka a free man.
but after that your orgasm will be fucked forever and i don't know if it's a good or bad thing for you.

My brother is on those and he talks like a different person. He has a look I equate to a blissful old person sometimes. Otherwise, he is quite the same. How does it affect people typically?

You become complacent and sissy-feminized.
Too much of it and you end up like Jordan Peterson.

Marriage love by swedenborg. The trick is to have love for an actual individual rather than the feminine form in general.

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Fucking (closet)incels

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>talks about auras whilst calling others npcs

develop latent homosexuality as an adult