I am a good looking man, if awkward (slightly chubby). I like talking in a sophistocated manner. Why... Why don't women like me? I do approach them, sometimes I use pick up lines, sometimes a normal conversation opener. They either get mad or they dont even reply to my texts if I got their number. I am not even needy, I text a simple 'Hey, it's me, user' and not a single hey back. During conversation I use variations of compliments I have read in poems, it doesn't work. I am so fucking sad.
I live in south america btw. I just, dont want to be so lonely, single, worthless. I am being myself, and I am approaching women daily, what am I doing wrong?
I donno if you’re doing anything wrong or just finding women who aren’t interested. Be open to it, be light. Make friends. ...of course you have to be what single women are in the “market” for. Don’t be sad. It’s not the end of the world yet.
Asher Watson
Women start to like you once you stop being a cumbrain. Its ironic but true .
I thought "fuckboys" was just an insult used by people with neon hair to belittle masculinity in all its manifestations.
Hudson Murphy
Hold the fuck up... there is a Yea Forums guide to flirting? Lemme see that book chart
Thomas Gray
fuckboys are goodlooking, extraverted guys who sleep around and dont commit
Zachary Rogers
>I do approach them, sometimes I use pick up lines, sometimes a normal conversation opener. How do you approach them? What do you talk about?
Cooper Hall
I think user means that he asked here and somebody gave him some shitty advice.
Robert Harris
No, in sexually terminology fuckboys are cute little twink whores. Its only in backwaters like South America where basic English colloquial is confused.
Nathaniel Hughes
I don’t give a shit about faggot terminology. I meant what said, and every single person who I’ve ever seen say that word has meant it like that.
Grayson Rogers
literally nobody calls a Chad a Fuckboy. If you said that to a Chad he's lay you out.
Luis Hill
you dont have to be 6'2, very muscular and model-faced to be a fuckboy, just be goodlooking, wear fashionable clothing and be extraverted/popular. it's way broader than 'chad'
Ryder Sullivan
>followed Yea Forums's advice on flirting Yeah, spotted the problem. Ignore everything Yea Forums has to say about women, they do not speak from a place of knowledge
Nobody would appreciate the title "fuckboy" unless he was more than just a little bi
Adam Cruz
obviously no one appreciates it, it’s just what they’re known as. just like the term “slut”. no slutty girl considers herself to be a slut, but still sees other girls who display that behavior sluts. it’s called cognitive dissonance
Carter White
don’t fake your personality because that’s exhausting, but work on what you got and develop your personality in such a manner that you’re still yourself - but not a bitch. Watch Patrice O’Neal’s Black Phillip youtube series. You don’t have to act like a fat loud black guy from new york, but the principles he talks about are universal.
Noah Taylor
>South America That's your problem user. You won't find a woman that likes for you to be sophisticated unless you are an older man. The only way to get women while being "Yea Forums" is pretending that you are a rebel.
Nathaniel Mitchell
>appreciates it's an insult dude.
Gavin Martinez
OP here, I approach them if they seem in a calm mood. If they are doing anything I first ask 'Hey you occupied' the reply they give doesnt matter because I then follow with 'Because your beauty occupies the whole place' (It sounds better in Spanish, the language we speak the most in my country). And I then ask what's their name. Another one I like is one I read months ago from some user 'Hey, while you passed by your eyes were whispering beautiful things to me, except one, your name'. I have used the latter plenty and 8 out of 10 women get confused and either they go 'what' or simply make an annoyed face and ignore me. It makes me sad because it sounds so sweet too.
If I don't start with a pick up line I usually ask a random question pretending not to be from the city I live in. I wasn't born on this city either but I have lived here for a decade.
After their name, they either completely shut down, at which point I say 'oh, don't mind me, I just wanted to give you a compliment, have a nice day'. If we keep talking I ask where they are from, what brings them here, I add another compliment about how I was thinking about whatever until I saw their face and it flooded my thoughts with how interesting they looked. And then I ask for a phone number.
I have gone with everything after this point, emojis, another compliment, another pick up line, one of my best photos, me saying 'your smile was so sweet the whole time', and none of them worked, I have given up and now all I say is 'Hey what's up, it's me user.' And they take a loooooong time to respond, almost always with no interest.
I have had a couple gfs (like 4), it saddens me because I am 19 and I think I am already fucking ugly to women. I only have had sex once, it was a single mother on Tinder who always talked about how great it was I had a good paying job so young. I feel ashamed.
There has to be anons here who made it, I want to be happy like you.
There are so many errors with this post that I thoroughly enjoy it
Nolan Walker
> just like the term “slut”. no slutty girl considers herself to be a slut
You're even more of a virgin than most virgins. I mean all you have to do is watch some porn to realize that's a total misapprehension
Angel Cruz
dial back the clingyness
Blake Perez
Follow this advice if you want a gf user
Cameron Hill
that’s obviously hyperbolic. of course there are some freaks out there. most slutty girls don’t see themselves that way, they rationalize it away and then apply the label to other girls
Ayden Hernandez
>taking advice from a mentally ill person don't listen to it OP
Matthew Martinez
Women have very little self-respect. Its almost what defines men from women more than anything else. A woman who has self-respect is usually more androgynous of mind than other women.
Ryan Morales
whatever, that’s a non sequitur. my point still stands. most slutty women don’t consider themselves sluts
Hudson Sullivan
be happy single and independent before you try and get into a relationship. A woman will not complete you. If you expect them to, they will detect that shit immediately and any relationship you might have will go awfully. They won’t respect you if you depend on them for your happiness, they’ll walk all over you if you have no sense of self-respect and security.
