How do i do the right thing

I'm in no way a chaste anti-sex person, but people are way too obsessed with sex, and I think it weighs heavily on people's minds who have more nurturing qualities (fuck you guys for thinking this is corny).
> I would be petrified by fear
This is a fairly normal reaction. Sex is scary; love even more so. It's natural to have these urges, but you can't let your body control your mind; don't try and shove those feelings into a dark pit of your conscious, either. Truthfully, I've had some embarrassing encounters that end with me spurting in seconds, and both parties mortified with embarrassment. But, who fucking cares? Sex is such a fleeting experience. You really are better off finding someone you love that will be patient with you and work through your insecurities instead of trying to fill up random whores and defeating the Sex Dragon.
t. awkward in my youth with woman now am at least competent.

show me a death worth dying and i'll give it all i've got

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But what if I just want to COOOM?

to presuppose this precipice
could be climbed by any one of us
that was my misjudgement

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In those scenarios that did you fantasize about? Was she the one who was coming on to you, or did you initiate the flirtation? Because what I've noticed is that most guys don't really find it attractive when girls hit on them (even if just in a fantasy). It can be sexually arousing, but it isn't truly attractive in a deeper sense. Since it is essentially an inversion of gender roles.

Try fantasizing about approaching a cute, innocent girl and having the exchange go well. Don't have it be sexual, just a nice flirtatious conversation where she is responsive and smiling to you. Do you still feel uncomfortable about it?

BASED.

I'm a 24 year old khv-virgin. Several women have asked me for my number, and have attempted to engage me physically in different ways. I have refused them ALL.
>"wanna grab a coffe?"
>"come to my place :)?"
>"can I have your number?"

One time at summer camp, this one girl literally hopped into my bed and rested her head on my chest. I left the room that instant. She'd asked me for my number a few weeks before, I didn't give it to her. What would a high-schooler do with a girl's phone number? We all know women are less intelligent, so help with school work was out of the question.
I refuse to engage in pre-martial sex/intimacy with ANY woman. Simply out sheer principle. Even in elementary school, I found myself disgusted at school "disco" nights. Why the hell do we allow kids to "slow dance" before puberty for fucks sake? Clearly the educational system has been compromised by hedonistic hebrew scum.

MY PARENTS HAVE BEEN IN A LOVING MARRIAGE FOR ALMOST 40 YEARS. EVER SINCE I WAS A CHILD, I HAVE HAD AN UNDERSTANDING OF THE SUPERIOR NATURE OF MARRIED LIFE. I WALK AROUND TOWN, I SEE SAD, DEPRESSED WRECKS WASTING THEIR LIVES "PARTYING", "EXPERIMENTING"
AND TRYING TO "FILL TO VOID INSIDE THEIR SOUL". THESE PEOPLE SCOFF AT "MARRIAGE". HAH, LIKE THEY COULD EVER MAKE IT WORK.
MARRIAGE IS RESERVED TO THE ONES WHO UNDERSTAND THE REAL MEANING OF LIFE. DEVOTING YOURSELF TO A WOMAN AND MAKING HER PREGNANT

NO SUSAN/JIM, YOU CAN'T REPLACE THE LOVE AND AFFECTION OF A HUSBAND AND CHILDREN WITH HEDONISM AND SEX.
YOU FELL FOR A MARKETING LIE. I DO NOT HATE YOU FOR IT, BUT I SPIT IN YOUR FATHERS FACE'S FOR ALLOWING YOU TO ACT LIKE THIS.

HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE WOULD BE THE EASIEST THING ON THE PLANET TO DO. BUT IT WILL ONLY BRING YOU MOMENTARY HAPPINESS, JUDGING BY THE TYPE OF PEOPLE WHO FREQUENT BABYLONIAN NIGHT CLUBS IN SEARCH OF ALCOHOL, DRUGS AND LOOSE WOMEN.

THERE IS NO OTHER ACTIVITY ON THE PLANET THAT PEOPLE WILL CHASTISE YOU THIS MUCH FOR NOT DOING.

holy, this thread just got very based

put me in the screencap

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You should be giving thanks to Heaven for guiding you so auspiciously, and for so long.

finally Yea Forums has returned to full form

I wanna kiss u rn u beautiful fuck

In this situation I've imagined, I'm seated and a pretty girl is sitting on my right, in some poorly lit area where all I can see is her face and torso. She's dressed in a black shirt with a green coat over it. She looks like all the girls I ever fell for at once, Alex, Brooklyn, Grace, Leah, Sophia, Natalie, every girl I ever met and crushed on but never said anything to. She smiles and leans in on my chest and tells me she loves me and puts her hand on my chest and I get chills in my spine and I fee like crying.

I feel the same kind of stress, but at the same time shame AND release one feels when they're told they failed and I have no idea why

This kind of thing is prevarication, OP.

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Might sound a bit psycho, but try doing this on girls you aren't VERY attracted to, for pratice. Try tinder also to get a bit more comfortable with flirting

Based

By deleting all your blow-jack pics

psychoanalyze me

this

"Look homie, I don't mind dying. You feel me? But I just want to die over something that matters, homie. That's what Forum Gangsters should really be about."

Most people here are telling OP that he should not worry about sex and should actually save himself for marriage after achieving financial stability and psychological maturity.

They are right.

However, I fear OP might be an immediatist and believe that he must fuck so that his mind is healed from his torments.

To that I say, OP may have sex, but his mind will never be quiet. Sex will only bring him further torment if done out of a place of Love, Care and Companionship that is mutual.

Do not have sex with a woman you don't see yourself having children with.

Do not have sex with a woman just because there is social pressure just to do so.

True sexual liberation is neither sexual conservatism nor sexual liberalism, but a place/state of Mind where people don't care whether or not you have tons of sex, or none at all.

We have not achieved true sexual liberation. We are in an age of sexual promiscuity.

OP, focus on yourself. Build yourself. Do calisthenics. Go to /fit/ and do Starting Strength. Go to /fa/ and learn the basics. Go to /sci/ and learn logic and mathematics. Go to /ic/ and /3/ and learn Art. Stay here and learn philosophy, religion, metaphysics, and fill yourself with such a literary culture that you become such a good company to yourself that you don't feel want of any woman.

Stop watching porn. Discipline yourself. Take cold showers. Perfect your will. Once your Ego is Golden, sacrifice it on the Altar before God.

The woman you find shall be your measure. If you are scum, your wife will be scum. If you are holy, your wife will be holy.

How come one wants to have a chaste wife, but is not chaste himself?

OP, maybe you just want to have sex. Maybe you don't care about chastity. This is OK. However, don't forget our words. Go and err, and then learn, and realize what you have lost.

Hope you don't get AIDS, but hope even more that you see the Light. Sex is such a small part of Life, and some many problems are created around it...

that isn't helpful :( aurelius confirmed brainletttt

butterfly, would you kiss me?

I wish I had people such as the ones in this thread to guide me when I was a teenager.

When I was 14 I had my first girlfriend, and we both wanted sex. However, I felt that what I was doing was wrong. I didn't really want to spend my life with her, but she did want to spend her life with me.

I went to an online forum, not this one, and asked people for guidance. I said I was afraid I might be corrupting her, and that I felt guilt for doing what I was doing.

They all mocked me, and said that if I wasn't the one to do it, then someone else would, so it should be better that she would be defiled by someone who at least cares an ounce about her. "Why do virgin men give such an importance to sticking their dicks into wet axe wounds found between the legs of women?", one of them said.

Such a profane point of view.

Of course, gullible as I was, and my father was of no different view from that of these people, I went on with it. I had sex at the age of 15. You know, it was good. But it wasn't what I pictured in my mind, and it sure wasn't worth it. I had five other women before finding my current one. None of the ones who came before her were meaningful.

Nowadays I have a woman in my life who is the one I want to spend my whole life with. I didn't learn any advanced hindu sexual tricks. Mere love is enough to turn sex into... something else. It is almost as if we fuse together during these moments.

Love is the true spice of Sex. Sex without love is wet masturbation with strange eyes lustfully gazing one another, careless-ly.

Graced and chastepilled

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>THERE IS NO OTHER ACTIVITY ON THE PLANET THAT PEOPLE WILL CHASTISE YOU THIS MUCH FOR NOT DOING.
Based and you are entirely correct user.

This thread is officially the resurrection of Yea Forums

Just do it bro, turn your brain off lmao

But really, stop thinking about the future, stop thinking about the past, do the right thing right now

indeed Yea Forums has risen and behold it is a handsome thing :)

The coomer memes have played a huge role. Jayman079 is ironically a hero

yeah, i'm thinking you're based

where's the spice man spice it up cmon

I don’t know why. Why are some people afraid of heights, spiders or water? You can beat it though.
I have my little fears, and I’m sick of them, so I’m going to take my own advice

>guy
Couldn’t possibly.

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God may forgive you, but can you forgive yourself come the end whereupon you realize the depths of the lies you have told yourself and stolen away the life worth living?

UNBELIEVABLY chaste and ASTONISHINGLY breadpilled

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look for the use

I will be your little girl if you would be my man

Very, very nice flowchart. We still know you by your sign, satan.

The thing would read and flow a bit better if organized in a "circular" fashion as opposed to the rectangular one.

Based

Realizing that there's no right thing to do, that's only a spook

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So all actions are equally preferable? Do you stab yourself as often as you eat?

cringe

yeah but do you masturbate to porn and shit

do you like agps

by critically investigating the nature of choices available

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this is hilarious this is some pessoa shit right here

God, I hate you but you’re right. I don’t have sex with girls, but I like going on dates with pretty ones, especially if they are bubbly. Do I need to be going on dates with only girls I’d seriously consider marriage with?

Damn. You are one based mfer

You don't

Based Alyosha

jesus fuck not this faggot again
kys already you literal girl

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I used to think this but then an athletic qt came onto me and I went full gorilla mode. It was at that moment I realised that I was actually an animal

based

was >pic related you too?

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t.Kohelet

>20 years later
>user is still a virgin