How do I rid myself of all sexual desires...

Eat lesser amounts of food, it helps alot, at least for me, sure thing

Nah, just pay a brain surgeon to remove the third interstitial nucleus of the anterior hypothalamus.

90 day nofap

>get all the negatives of sex without any of the positives

Negatives of sex? Please explain.

addiction, guilt, etc.

Damn. How old are you guys? No bully
youtu.be/stDhBFwRbI0
He was only at 3-4 times a week, but it still seems strange. What are the other effects on life if you can't even enjoy sex?

That not true, when you have a girlfriend shit like Addiction an Guilt, like, x10

And more importantly, can you get it up for a real woman (I mean if you tried to be interested, she was really hot etc.)? Would be an interesting study to see how many people lose sex drive completely and others just regarding masturbation.

I'm 23. I can enjoy sex, but I just don't actively pursue it like I used to before the drug, which is fine, because I'm disappointed in women, and I guess it flows both ways.

you know i like boobs but I thought about like what if i woke up one day and was asexual.
Then I'd see boobs as a two lumps of fat on womans chest and would probably feel dumb that I was so obsessed with them before.

Castration would be easier, and could probably be done by any competent veterinary

Same OP, I genuinely hate women but can help wanting to fuck them due to the fact of my brain think about sex

you all need to be committed.

The penis is located too close to one's wallet. This certainly is a design flaw.

I can have sex but I don't pursue it (I'm and btw)

Interesting. Anybody here read it?

wish someone informed would respond, i feel like there as extremely interesting literature about this perspective.

bump

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Bump. Sexual desires are a true hindrance at this point in my life. Buddhism supposedly promotes chastity, but I haven't read what it suggests to pull it off yet (and, Culadasa makes me doubt the veracity of their claims.)

I recently got prescribed prozac... can you further explain the effects it had on your mind and body? what made you stop taking it?

im seeing a psychologist weekly but I feel so opposed to taking medication because its 'soma'

After you engage in a sexual act (some form of intercourse or even just masturbation), hurt yourself badly. Not just a scratch, but at a minimum a broken bone. After 3 or 4 injuries, you'll stop having a strong desire for sex.

It's important the injury is severe enough though, otherwise it won't stick.

You actually do. It's like drinking salt water and after the brief refractory period ends, it comes back with a vengeance. Soon enough it becomes a daily or thrice daily habit. The more you feed it, the stronger it grows and the more hold it has over you, brainet retard.

read about asubha, body contemplations and mindfulness of death practices.
Culadasa doesn’t talk about those in his books and I’m pretty sure he didn’t practice them himself

thank you friend, fuck yeah. Do you have any particular references you'd recommend to begin with? I'll Google my way to it otherwise, I'm glad to have this much direction

take this advice. just look at most people. Dude sex. Dude tinder. dude porn! they're masturbating or fucking daily. it doesn't stop anything. just more fuel to the fire. the ancient saints compared fornication to being on fire because it spreads and is hard to put out.

Just get a doll

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Both are pathetic and inferior to a state of chastity and continence.

bhikkhu analayo has some guided body contemplations and mindfulness of death I think as a part of his guided satipatthana meditation.
Check out this website: 32parts.com/
This is also helpful:
youtu.be/8Xy01jkEsnQ
I’d like to remind you that in addition to these practices, meditations conducive to direct insight (such as traditional satipatthana-vipassana or shikantaza) tend to be enormously helpful in curbing sexual cravings the more you develop wisdom/prajna. It just won’t obsess your mind the same way it does for a puthujjuna. Emptiness practices in addition to traditional vipassana are highly important as well (though probably better after a fair degree of insight has been realized through traditional vipassana first). Rob Burbea is unironically good for that kind of thing.
Visiting charnel grounds to watch bodies decay is another common practice among monastics, especially in the more reclusive traditions like the Thai Forest Tradition. If you can’t do that, there are facebook groups dedicated to asubha where they essentially post gore, old people, people with skin-eating diseases...etc. I imagine it wouldn’t be hard to find websites dedicated to that sort of thing.
Lastly, make sure to balance with mettā and samadhi practice if you start to feel like you’re going mad from the asubha stuff.

good post

Read the confessions of st. Augustine

if you wank enough eventually you will need to think of some really specific shit to get off, and you will also break your physiology and usher in dick failure. along with this, a drop in libido (and arguably, demotivation). source: my life

>Masturbates into his own hand like a gay

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>these urges which are left over from our more primitive times on the planet
Don't kid yourself. There's nothing primitive about procreation. It's the basis for life itself.

My sex drive died after a soul-destroying relationship with a particularly unscrupulous succuba ended. It's really quite a blessing. When I see a shapely girl now I still get desire, but it is followed by thoughts of that previous relation which ends the urges pretty quickly.

I don't practice nofap. I treat masturbation as a bodily function that I need to take care of every few days. I don't spend 30 minutes finding the perfect video and an hour edging. I just pound one out dry in like 5 minutes; usually to the same video of mike ardiano getting his dick sucked and asshole rimmed at the same time. (For me the more gonzo type stuff helps dissociate what I'm watching with my reality)

>It's like drinking salt water
I liked this example

Thank you friend, you have helped me more than I can say.

It's primitive in the sense that sexual intercourse is no longer needed to create offspring.

And yet it is still the quickest and easiest way.

do like 7-8 tabs of acid

>"Distraction"
>Naturalist paradigm
Enjoy your slavery to sin, user. You will never be able to once and for all overcome such urges except with the help of God.

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Get married. Nothing kills desire like 20 years of marriage!

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You can end sensuality by practicing Dhamma. Here are some meditation instructions on how to do so:

youtube.com/watch?v=BQPtqBlZQGM

> Dhamma
It's Dharma you retard. The chinks didn't know how to say it properly.

We just maybe cursed in entire life