How do you overcome having missed out on teenage romance and sex?
How do you overcome having missed out on teenage romance and sex?
Recovering as best you can.
Trust me, it was pretty shit. Worst sex of your life, you didn't miss anything. Mid 20s to early 30s is the truly based period.
The only people that ask this type question are themselves teenagers. Once you reach around the age of 23 user, assuming you're in possesion of a minimum level of consciousness, you'll begin to realise that nothing in your teenage years mattered.
It really didn’t matter, if you “missed out” you really shouldn’t feel bad because adult relationships are far more fulfilling and less irritating
1) realize that sexual liberation is bad
2) come to detest fornication and sodomy
3) either find a wife or become celibate
>you'll begin to realise that nothing in your teenage years mattered
It may be truth but it that doesn't matter at a subconscious level, as it retains the trauma from all the possible uncomfortable events you experienced in these crucial years of development. Fears and anxieties you attained may stay with you forever
Read books.
Realize where your mistake was and learn to always take action doesn’t matter if its sex or not just avoid regretting not doing
>How do you overcome having missed out on teenage romance and sex?
Revolt against the modern world. Reject enlightenment/humanism/liberalism/post-modernism and all the evil of atheist-nihilism.
It's all a lie. Marriage is the only context in which romance and sex have any sense / meaning. "Dating" is a modern aberration.
Dating is for homosexuals, and always was their means of circumventing the rules.
It sucks and it would've probably been awesome but my upbringing was absolute shit my parents don't remember what classes I take they ask me every few days and act defensive when I tell them "how have you not remembered that you idiot".
They are co-dependent children that are drag their bodies around trying to hide from pain but pain keeps finding them no matter where they try to hide and there's no womb anymore for them, they didn't realize they should have challenged the unknown because that would've been painful anyway so they may as well should've fucking tried to change something about the way they live.
Some people have decent parenting, some don't. That's about what it boils down to.
Forgive your parents as God forgives you.
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How old are you? Seems like you just wanted an opportunity to vent about your teenage feud with your parents. And yes, as said, you should act in a spirit of meekness and submission when addressing your parents. Do not call them idiots, and be patient with them, then your Father will do the same for you.
extremely based
Low quality bait fellas, and yes I mostly did want to vent
As someone who started having sex at 15 I would advise you to not worry about it. If I spend any time thinking about my early sexual experiences, it's only to reflect on how embarrassing and awkward it was.
For me, I realized that I value intimacy and closeness in relationships and that what was expected of me in my teenage years (hooking up, etc) was not actually good for me.
The relationships I had were all after high school, and most of them got physical, although never to the point of actual intercourse for a few reasons (anxiety, porn addiction, common sense for a couple). The thing though is that almost all those relationships were terribly flawed and caused a lot of emotional pain. This is precisely because I wasn't ready for something like that. I didn't know what I valued, I didn't know who I was (to a reasonable extent) as a person, I hadn't developed myself. I was doing something I thought was good, but it over time it proved itself to be not for me.
I'm 26 now, still a virgin, and I'm actually glad about it. Glad I didn't give that part of myself to some girl who didn't deserve it. People think virginity doesn't matter, but it absolutely does. The girls I was sexually intimate with even without intercourse I feel like had a big effect on me. Negative or otherwise. I realize now I value that closeness and deep connection with one person more than anything and I want to wait until I'm married to someone I love to actually have sex.
If I had gotten laid as a depressed teenager with no self-esteem or confidence would that have really helped me? No. It would have created a lot of problems, and I already had those in abundance.
My advice OP is realize that the most important relationship you have is with yourself. Develop that instead of idealizing some lost teenage love. You don't know how that would have turned out if it did happen. It might have been terrible. Try to better yourself now and realize love isn't going anywhere. Do it on your own terms instead of conforming to what society expects from you
By enrolling in a literature course and banging women half your age.
Based, redpilled, and cum backed up gonna fly out like a wax dart.
dude half a month into nofap you realize this (I myself am further) you realize that sex is pretty fucking gross. It helps when you think about it like Aurelius "Or making love—something rubbing against your penis, a brief seizure and a little cloudy liquid" and realize these people are all worshippers of the flesh that Paul spoke of and have as "many masters as vices" as Augustine spoke of.