University

If you wake up in a prison cell, never entreat the jailer to let you go. Don't wail, don't rattle your tin cup across the bars, don't smear shit all over the walls. Occupy yourself with whatever seems most fruitful: excercise, read, count, write--whatever positive means you have available to yourself. Now here's the key: when the jailer comes to let you out thank them, be cooperative, and leave--don't hide in the corner enclosed by shadows and continue to busy yourself with your distraction.

>Will things finally be different?
only if you move as far away from home as possible

>do autists get pussy at uni because there's a level of intelligence you need to enter?
well that's what happened to me
incidentally, this is also the reason i didn't complete my course

almost no one was having sex in high school. Most lie about it. Your penis envy is what's stopping you from getting laid. Just go work out and develop self confidence. It'll be alright

kek, people were already having sex in middle school, and the girls who weren't were giving blowjobs, you missed out

my housemate has both an attractive girlfriend and a lewd Rei figurine, that he doesn't hide from her. He also has Warhammer things. She doesn't drink or go out in the evenings ever. most she does is get meals with friends and go to obscure markets

ofc he, my housemate, is solid socially and is attentive to her, but it still seems hard to believe sometimes

I think so much of the incel view of women is based on just not having real experiences with them. In uni I've met legit only two or three girls who conform to that kind of tinder centric life

I go to a very good (top 10 worldwide) uni tho, so that might change things

This is a philosophical discussion which fits for this board. I wanted to have it on the most intelligent board not r9k

The fact you come here proves you're broken and unlovable. The fact you come here for advice proves you will never get better.

I have tried and succeeded, but my dick has prevented me from having sex. The girl suddenly becomes "tired" when she sees or feels my dick and then implicitly rejects me. This has happened a number of times and I don't care anymore. It's all lost

>yes
>no

Attempting to sex down a women using you iq is like attempting to play baseball with a screwdriver for a bat

The average age people lose their virginity is 16 where I live

Based cryptic jail poster. But what if the jailer never lets me out?

I can almost guarantee this is not true unless you live in a third world country in which case there isn’t a point in comparing your life cycle with theirs

Welp, you can always just forget about women. Once you start looking for things that are more interesting than wasting time going on useless dates talking to people that are most of the time boring just for the possibility to get your dick wet for 20 minutes(while possibly catching a STD), you will notice that your small dick might not be that much of curse, possibly even see it as a kind of gift that keeps you from mostly wasting your time.

They survey people if they've lost their virginity, so everyone's copying each other's lies and saying 16. And the sample size is always small

I live in Finland, compared to which America is a 3rd world country. If you are not having sex yourself you might think that nobody else is having either (I know what it's like)

it’s the norm in suburban america

You just described my coping mechanism in short. Reading Weininger also helps

The sluts at my school lost it at 14 and the more normal girls lost it at 17-18 when they got their first serious boyfriend.

Blowjobs are sex.

You can sort of use being smart to get laid at uni, but as with anything else when you're not conventionally well above average attractive, you have to use tricks and sleight of hand and a lot of skill. Which means a lot of practice, failures, time invested. I am an autistic piece of shit and mediocre looking at best, but I did OK throughout college with various techniques. It's only gotten worse though. You really have to target niches now.

The problem is that for women college is like being in a gigantic superstore with an infinite credit card. They're obviously going to pass over anything that isn't worth their time, and they're constantly passing by many tantalizing things that they can afford to dabble with and try out any time they feel like it. For women, college is the single BEST time of their entire life. They are completely surrounded by supplicant men, many of whom are some mixture of attractive, tall, charismatic, wealthy, popular, socially adroit, etc. Any given non-ugly woman is being hit on by men constantly, and even when she's not being overtly hit on, she's being practically worshiped by every male classmate, including all the duds she'd never fuck but who still look at her and hold doors for her and try to talk to her and keep her interest and amuse her 24/7. She socializes nonstop with other girls, which is very fun for women. Make female friends in college and you will see that they go to parties and mixers and so forth VERY regularly, even the ones you think wouldn't be into that sort of thing. Keep in mind they also get into these for free, or more often are outright enticed to attend, obviously. Beyond those regular events they are hanging out with networks of impressive or semi-impressive men who want their favor. My female college friends were constantly being invited out by guys to interesting events and parties, for example guys who knew how to get onto the roofs of university buildings would invite girls up there and give them free booze and entertain them, apparently without even the expectation of sex.

Another female friend told me she went on Bumble dates with 35+ men before selecting her boyfriend, and this was of course on top of being regularly fawned over by several men in her close friend network, including myself to my shame. So on top of those guys, she screened an additional, nearly 40 high-quality men, all of whom would have been difficult to compete with: very good looking, very successful, generally just "cool" in some unique and rare way.

You're competing against all this. If you're not exceptional in some way, and especially if you're unattractive, you might as well be one of the smelly chairs in the library to any given college girl. She just has too much to compare you with, and as a woman her mind is a natural sorting algorithm for eliminating turds like you and me from the gene pool. College in its modern form is 110% form-fitted to serve as a stage for mate-selection, for women.

I'm going into my senior year at Harvard and I'm still an incel. I've just rotted away in the library reading books. Is there any way out of this hell?

Am I going to graduate university as a virgin?

i think he’s right, honestly. think about how much effort and time people expend on getting their dick wet.

Why? Is your dick too big to fit into a pussy?

Just to add one more thing to this post, when I would go out with girls or even female friends around campus, they would semi-regularly get free things. The servers would just say "it's on the house" or offer them free extra food. The first time this happened I said wow! What a nice guy! And the girl laughed knowingly like I was naive and said "try being a cute girl for a week."

The downside of this is of course when they graduate college. Then they have to become a frumpy office worker with steadily encroaching crows' feet.

>go in bathroom
>turn shower on
>stick dick in stream
how fucking hard is that? what are you schizo’s talking about?

What's the tail like at ivy leagues? Are the hot girls just normies that read books occasionally? is there anything aspie about them?

Too small

Lmao no, maybe back in the '90s the nerd schools renowned for causing student suicides still reflected their reputations, but nowadays just about every elite school is dominated by the "upper middle class WOKE hipster" demographic.

Go watch those videos of the Yale free speech protests or whatever that bullshit was. Or actually, go watch MDE's Williamsburg Street Fashion videos. The people in the Williamsburg Street Fashions are 100% ivy league personalities, just rich little pissants.

Why are so many guys on Yea Forums incel? Shouldn't you be smoking, drinking and attending degenerate sex parties?

There are very few WASPs here. Many of the white people here are Jews, who I don't find very attractive. The hot girls are on the sports teams or a rich donor kid. I've yet to met any top 1% intelligence girl who was also hot. Very easy to get laid as a white male if you are into asians (big asian girl population) - I'm not into asians though.

I've met a handful of aspie girls, but many of them are the corporate, white girl feminist type - younger Sheryl Sandbergs really

What school you go to?

>level of intelligence to enter

LOL it's not the 50's anymore get with the times gramps

Which Ivy rejected you user

yeah this kind of bugs me out. If people here look halfway decent, they could talk themselves into orgies with the rest of the hedonic pseuds in college/university and major cities. Really not that complicated.

Remember that many outside the walls go home every night to one of those warm homes where the windows glow like yellow lanterns through the blue night. These people are free, you imagine. Yet many of those wish they could ultimately find a quiet, isolated place to be alone and masturbate.

>If people here look halfway decent, they could talk themselves into orgies with the rest of the hedonic pseuds in college/university and major cities.
I get over 80 matches a week on Tinder, but I'm socially retarded. How do you talk yourself into an orgy?

youtube.com/watch?v=Tdx4j-Qjfak

If I went to an Ivy school, could I have a group of friends like in Kill Your Darlings? I want this LARP

OP, I went to Germany for uni and it was fucking horrible (especially because there isn't any campus life), but then I did a semester abroad in the US and it was a lot easier.

you get 80 matches a week and you're not getting laid!? the fuck!?

unironically, I message this to women and it works like 25% of the time:

First date idea: wine, dinner, and amazing sex?

about 50% respond. Half of those are like "sure", and then within in the next few exchanges (max three) get her number and schedule a day to meet. 1 in 3 will actually follow through (about the expected conversion rate desu)

If they don't say sure, they're going to probably comment like they're not interested, but they commented so you just caught their attention. Just switch it up like "that's chill, that was mostly to grab your attention" then carry on as you normally would.

I get like 5-10 matches a week and I have a constant stream of pussy.

>you get 80 matches a week and you're not getting laid!? the fuck!?
user, the girls are willing to meet up. I just don't want to meet someone off the internet. I want to meet someone in real life.

girls are thirsty at uni. it's the only time i've ever seen them behave this way, except for 30-something ladies when drunk. just be yourself and be interesting, be polite, and don't be a perv. be everything elliot rodger was not. i know these things are out of most young guy's reach, but you should still work towards them.

just to continue on this post of mine.

Girls do not match with people on tinder unless they are interested in fucking you. Point blank. The only job you have after that is to get their attention, then immediately meet in person--this is where people fail. Do not hold conversations in the app, you'll get lost in the sauce. You and her both obviously want to meet and text conversations have limited conversion to irl chemistry.

If you dont start getting laid after this, then you're broken.

perfect example. look at this loser. spreading diseases everywhere with his basic bitch honest approach. even he gets laid.

>girls are thirsty at uni.

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this is Evola right?

lying to women via text doesn't work that well since deception is feminine. Just be straightforward, lie to them in person

>tfw no gf

So they bought their way in? It's nothing to do with intelligence?

Jesus fucking christ

I got laid semi-regularly at University, but really started doing well in my final two years or so. I'm decent looking, but not a super-chad and certainly don't have a perfect body. Jail poster is right. As I became passionate for the Classics and devoted more time, girls seemed to think that passion interesting and latched onto it. I also articulated my hobbies more, reading politics, music, movies and even could flex playing video-games (like AoE2) since I started a club with my other friends. I'm definitely a mid-wit but tried to do my best.

It's actually probably 11 or 12

Lmao you are naive. They take the smartest of the smart, who won at academic olympiads, and the rest are affirmative action admits or those very wealthy and connected and make sure the smart people continue supporting the elite.

Why are you using the lords name in vain user?

elite uni has always been oligarchic and rigged for the rich in the 19th and 20th centuries but it's now so diluted that it's not even accidentally correlated with talent anymore. it used to select for high achievers but it's just a diploma mill for rich people who don't want their kids to be left out of elite culture.

when you picture someone who went to oxbridge or yale don't picture an elite intellectual, picture this a podcaster who writes op-eds about transgenders on medium.com. that is what it breeds and that's the kind of people you will associate with there. obviously some elites are still to be found but it's practically in spite of the norms of selection, not because of them.

If you were more intelligent it'd hinder you because you would seem incoherent to them

Usa should get nuked already

>t. narcissistic incel pseud

I definitely was/am, and I think certain girls like that though. A little bit of edge (not LE EDGY), but just a bit of uncertainty. That and I had a tragedy in my family that I still carry, which may have contributed to it, as much as I really didn't want it to

American college girls are really fucking easy
t. Italian

There's a clear communication gap when you talk to people at least a standard deviation away from your intelligence, but I get i should try to explain myself better because of the Feynman technique.

I haven't meet many people in my friend-group, and acquaintances were this has happened

>This is a philosophical discussion which fits for this board.
Op's topic is not philosophical discussion

Which doesn't prevent you from getting laid, unless you are the one with the lower iq.

It's a discussion on hierarchy