How do I stop spending my life drinking cheap rum and playing doom mods on my potato laptop?
How do I even begin changing myself.
How do you learn to like to read with an adhd riddled mind
How do I stop spending my life drinking cheap rum and playing doom mods on my potato laptop?
How do I even begin changing myself.
How do you learn to like to read with an adhd riddled mind
>drinking cheap rum and playing doom mods on my potato laptop
Sounds comfy desu
Too comfy
>drinking cheap rum and playing doom mods
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Give your life to Jesus
Go to a community college and get advice from a counselor.
There is hope!
Begin reading *good* short fiction. Branch out, read a chunk of what's on offer, then use that base to work into longer fiction, and more engaging non-fiction (homage to catalonia is a cliché, but still a great starting point).
start with Fiction, even cheesy one. I started reading when i was 18 with "world war z" and then i started reading more complex stuff.
This.
Pick up some short stories, Chekhov and Tolstoy are great
Habit. It's brutal to change. Try doing something positive for a few minutes each day. Never skip a day. Build off that.
I don't know if it'll work for you but it worked for me.
What I did was take on responsibilities for other people. I joined the committee of a few clubs I'm in, said I would host a potluck, promised to help others with various tasks etc.
What I found was that while I am terrible at setting goals for myself and completing them, I am rather good at living up to my promises to others, and good at helping others accomplish stuff. I enjoy doing it, and it's helped my social life and career a lot, and it also has given my life a lot of structure.
I think it worked for me because while I didn't care about disappointing myself, I did care about disappointing others who were counting on me.