How does one acquire/lit/ friends?
And it's not like I'm looking for book obsessed nerds. It just seems like everyone in my immediate social circle just has absolutely no taste in anything or interest in anything interesting.
Are there cities where all the smart people congregate?
University classmates, book clubs, etc.? Where are you?
Try the social board, This is the place to discuss literature.
Are you kidding? Go bitch on the dozen of threads arguing about theology and women in here.
>Go bitch on the dozen of threads arguing about theology and women in here.
I’m getting to those. The fact that there are other off topic threads doesn’t make your off topic thread alright. Boards are only good if we work to make them that way.
Go to meetups. Critique groups, book clubs. Most people will be vapid and uninteresting. Keep trying until you find some that aren't.
It's not my thread, but seriously, when the top threads are "Is fucking hooker Yea Forums?"
"All proven drug users and dealers should be executed for the good of society,"
and "If you think music is getting more homogeneous over time, you're a fucking hack,"
you're wasting your time here. Start with the OP comments that don't even mention books.
I’ve posted in two of those three threads about them being off topic, relax. OP’s thread is just as guilty as they are.
>how do I make Yea Forums friends
>is fucking hookers Yea Forums
Neither attempt to discuss books, they’re advice posts masked in an imagined, undefinable “Yea Forums“ aesthetic
dude, why are you using this board as a community? go to writing workshops, book clubs, etc.
do not look for your good information on this board, thats all im gonna say. and don't repeat all the stupid shit you've learned on here. Yea Forums isn't rea life
and yes the smart people are in cities
I can relate 100%. You even posted my favorite Terry pic. I have no idea how man. I think some people are just meant to not fit in. I think our only chance is to find people like ourselves. I'm not saying we're special rare snowflakes either, just that all the other people like us are also isolated and so it's difficult to find each other, no matter how many of us there are.
I have one friend who is kind of on the same spectrum of autism as me, we both have the exact same very obscure views on the world and politics and stuff, but we don't hang out because he likes to hang out with normies. Maybe people like us are boring and don't know what to do with other people like ourselves. Maybe I could work on some creative project with likeminded individuals. Or work out and stuff.
I absolutely hated everyone in my literature classes. They're all a very particular kind of intelligent that I really dont like being around. Very narrow, studious people playing games of oneupmanship. They knew all the right ideas and academic words to use but didn't really have any spark of Independent intelligence.
Then again there were like the same 5 people in all my classes.
Never been to a book club. I'm in the wealthy suburb of a large midwest city.
>And it's not like I'm looking for book obsessed nerds. It just seems like everyone in my immediate social circle just has absolutely no taste in anything or interest in anything interesting.
>Are there cities where all the smart people congregate?
see? that's why you don't have friends
I'm not using this as a community obviously otherwise I wouldnt be asking how to find intelligent people in real life.
It seems like you all are saying the only place to meet intelligent open minded people is at books clubs. I guess I might have to try that.
I do have friends. I'm just tried of being the smartest person in my friend group.
The only thing they're interested in is generic vidya, marvel movies, and boring shit like that.
There favorite book is always farenheit 451 and their favorite movie is Dark Knight Rises.
I just want someone to be able to drink good liquor, watch good movies, and talk about interesting books with someone that its not totally lost on.
I know exactly what you mean my friend.
I was really lucky and able to get a gf that is also a non-npc. The problem is that were the only two people we know like us and we've been pretty much isolated from everyone else for years.
I have people who I can play vidya or /tg/ shit with but past those narrow interests it's like their brain is on standby mode.
Goddamn I wish I had /tg/ friends to play rpgs with. You have it better than me at least. I guess I should try to befriend autists with a different brand of 'tism.
Yes but they're not even very /tg/ intelligent. There are those people that exist but you'll never be able to talk to them about anything interesting besides a dnd campaign
>has absolutely no taste in anything or interest in anything interesting.
How does one stop being this way?
I'm sure that there something that interests you.
I get what you're saying. I sort of have an aversion to book clubs because I like to read my own stuff and I'd love to have friends to recommend books to/be recommended books by. But maybe a book club is a place to make those friends. I don't know.
I mean take like something simple like whiskey. When you first start drinking whiskey its probably going to be some generic cheap popular brand. It's going to taste pretty decent to you.
And that's where 99% of people stop. They like something, dont think about it, and just ask for more of that same thing. Someone who wants to develop a good taste for whiskey will try a large variety of whiskey at every price point, type, and level of obscurity. They would ask themselves "exactly what do I like about this whiskey?" Eventually you'll get to a point where you will start to enjoy depths and differences in whiskey that you would never would have even been able to detect before. Likewise the whiskeys that you first tasted will seem like simplistic trash that you can barely even stand to drink anymore.
It's the same process with anything from movies, television, books, architecture, video games, food, drinks, anything. Its just about trying lots of new things and developing yourself to experience depths of pleasure that you were never able to find before.
Detroit?
Kansas City
Yeah it’s called the cities, except they’re all focused on grinding so they don’t end up as one of the 92% of people struggling with bills.
Be nice.
Yeah, capitalism sucks the community out of a lot of places.
> Very narrow, studious people playing games of oneupmanship. They knew all the right ideas and academic words to use but didn't really have any spark of Independent intelligence.
Can you tell us more about them, user?
You should go to Yea Forums those guys are smart enough to ignore you like the retard you are and put you in your place.
I just stalk Yea Forums female women and creep on their feet pics
Unlike you?
Guess what retard, everyone is full of shit including you. You don't need to make friends into fucking dumb niche interest haven't you watched the movie Orange County its kinda like that and the west is stupid anyways who cares what happens over there. Still its a simple idea with a successful mass appeal to normal people yet here you are acting like you're some fucking hot shit because no-one understand just how fucking deep chuck palahniuk is
I hear Lexington ky of all places is surprisingly Yea Forumserati. Also taos nm
You okay buddy?
let's be real