>Dear community,
>Firstly, let me say thank you for the messages of support that I have received since yesterday's revelations.
>In the aftermath, I would like to ask people to bear in mind the following:
>The #MeToo movement is incredibly important. Victims must have a voice, and they must be encouraged to speak up. Do not stop trusting people when you hear their stories because of this. People must be heard. Despite what has happened to me, I am an ardent supporter of #MeToo. The person who enacted the campaign against me relied on using well intentioned people who are believers in all the best parts of #MeToo. They did, however, take action in error, and many of them on discovering the deceit have posted public apologies and retractions.
>No ill will should be borne towards those that were brought to be a part of something unwittingly. The level and scale of deception used to influence and coerce those that were used against me was extraordinary. And when I say that, unless you have seen the evidence, what you're imagining by 'extraordinary' probably does not even begin to cover it. I'm going to go on stating this because even describing it that way does not begin to explain the lengths, depths and time investment that were put into this. The people who were coerced have been abused and they are also survivors of online stalking. Some of them have posted publicly to say that the perpetrator has groomed them for an entire year. It is not right to be angry towards those whose trust has been abused. Those that have come forward and publicly apologised must not be blamed or attacked. Not in my name. Not because of this incident.
>While I was the target, and the consequences of that targeting would have been life altering and devastating for me if not for the actions of those who believed in me and brought the truth to light, I am not the only survivor of online abuse. The people now discovering that they have spent months, or years, talking to and confiding in someone they believed to be a friend, only to discover that they have been played, are survivors as well.
>Secondly, this has nothing to do with gender. I was not targeted because I was male. Due to the nature of the campaign, and because I have never met or spoken to the perpetrator, I do not know whether the person responsible is male or female. Please do not make this a platform for unrelated issues. The issue is entirely one of online harassment and falsification, which could happen to anybody irrespective of who they are.
>Be kind to one another. If there's at least one lesson we can all agree on, it's surely that.
Am I supposed to feel sympathy for him?