How many of you have transcended sex?

tiddies

Feminism has taught us that male is the default, so everyone is male by default.

>celibate girl
how terribly ugly are you lol

>Had a gf
>Couldn't sexualize her
>Left me for someone who would treat her like meat

I like to believe, but I've seen this happen to my friends as well, and now the anecdotal evidence is making that a challenge to believe.

More details, pls? Would you not ever have s*x with her? What was her reaction? Did she expect such an act from you?

No, we had sex reasonably regularly. I just had trouble turning off the part of my brain that saw her as a person who smiled the way she did when we made pastries with her grandmother, who never had anyone that didn't sexualize her, and who I improvised dinner with every night.
For some reason I only ever make it to 2/3s mast when someone is more than just wet pussy and nice boobs.
I spent a lot of time eating her out because that was easy and she loved it.

Get an asexual gf. Some asexual people still want companions even if they do not want to sleep with them.

Is that even real? Do actual asexuals exist? How would one ever find them?

I had a boyfriend who wanted to have sex with me but before we ever did anything I was too upset to want to continue the relationship because he was so bad at video games that I felt extremely embarrassed and disgusted. Afterwards, I went on a spiritual journey into the desert and met a bunch of hippies and realized that ignoring the base desires of sex and romantic relationships are much more preferable.
People off the street still try to ask me out on dates but I would prefer to hone my spirit and soul than engage in those advances.
After all, there are millions of women out there so me leaving the dating pool doesn't really make a different.
That said, if your girlfriend obsesses over video games and takes pride in them and then you lie to them that you're good at them and try to get her to play games for literal children because you're unable to fucking read a fucking tutorial, maybe don't date her? Like, for real.

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pretty much everything i've been doing for the past 10 years was in hopes of acquiring a female and getting my dick wet, yet i haven't succeeded. i take no joy from other activities, everywhere i go, i see males and females getting together in what seems like a pretext for intercourse. everything reminds me of what i will never be able to have. please kill me because i can't do it myself.

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>woman
>leaving the dating pool
>makes no difference
Of course, it does. If you were an average man, it wouldn't matter, but since you're a woman and women are a scarcity, it does. There's more men than women on this planet and men in general have higher sex drives, do the maths. Women are in high demand, now more than ever.

>Men have higher sex drives
>75% of women I know have put the moves on me, one was technically sexual assault

Pretty sure that's a myth, user.

I'd be up for group suicide. I plan to kill myself when I reach 40. There's no way I'm living past 50, what's the point?

>women are a scarcity,
it's the 21st century they are not

>personal anecdote
>implying you're not just attractive and that's why girls pursue you aggressively
>implying that refutes observable biological differences
I think you might be the dumbest person I've encountered in a long time.

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Autistic women who want a partner but don't like being touched.

Let me rephrase that: women willing to sleep with the average man are a scarcity, which is the whole point.

I wouldn't call myself more than average. I honestly just think the drives are far less skewed than we're lead to believe.

if you play videogames you are a fucking loser anyway so it's funny to see you say that dumbass shit you said

2 decades of celibacy

I enjoy watching feminine women during the summertime in their mini skirts, once in a while I fantasize for a few moments about a relationship with a wholesome qt.
A quick wank lester burnham style in the shower every few weeks, sometimes months go by before that happens.

Since I don't want to have kids, there's no reason to be sullied by the degeneracy that vaginas bring.

Monk Mode is the best life

I've been watching a lot of nature documentaries lately and I've noticed there are basically two set ups in nature
1. A lot of birds are monogamous.
2. Basically all the mammals have a situation where the males fight each other and then the winners get access to a large number of females.(this set up is all over nature too, all the lizards and insects and stuff I saw were doing this as well)

There are also naked mole rats which are beyond weird and seem to be turning into bees or ants or something. They have a giant 'queen' who has like 12 babies inside it all the time. Fucking bizarre and unholy.

Anyway when you look at the mammals, and then you look at how humans act, you get the impression that we are really meant more for the harem type situation, than the monogamy one. And that really universal monogamy must be a kind of alien imposition of civilization that women deeply resent. Not any monogamy, Im sure many women are happy to be with one guy if they can, but forcing them to be with the losing males instead of being part of a harem of a winning male, if those are the only two options.

If all women followed their true desires and left the bottom 80% men behind in the dust, society would collapse. Most men should have access to pussy, in order to cope with the turmoil and stress of modern life.

I mean in reality you see a number of compromises being made. It seems like in hunter gatherer societies a lot of men simply died from inter-male violence. So the point was kind of moot

As for what should happen that's a meme, things will just keep going until they can't sustain themselves for whatever reason and collapse.

It's also interesting to note that Islam almost uses their many left over men as a kind of spore to go invade neighboring societies. Polygamy + jihad is top tier strategy for expansion when you think about it

Dude, I love nature documentaries while still realizing they are pure ideology. Narration in nature documentaries was a mistake.

>they are pure ideology
What do you mean? The situation with the minority of successful males isn't made up by the narrator, that's really how it works for those animals

That makes me sort of sympathetic towards terorists. If they're just left over men, duped into sacrificing themselves as cannon fodder for religious leaders who don't give a shit about them; it's a bit heart breaking.

>higher sex drives
Individual variation in sexual frequency and urges without further explanation is a cop-out by non-physicians who do not want to explore cause and effect. Hormonal hypothesis is better but it is reductionist, and if explored, you will see that only DHT shows any bearing to frequency and alone fails to account for differences in 'sex drive'. Increasingly being accepted, is the idea that sexual frequency is subject to behavioral influences and habituation. We can see this with ΔFosB to sex, which is much stronger than other so called natural rewards (e.g. food). Habit ensues. Many men today can attest a very strange phenomenon where their sex drives are higher now in their 20s and 30s than it was in there teenage years. Many are surprised to hear this but considering the proliferation of pornography and wanton indulgence in any and all sexual acts at any opportunity alone time presents itself, it's no surprise habit would develop and then escalate.

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>ever expecting a woman to be smart
You're the brainlet

>I was too upset to want to continue the relationship because he was so bad at video games that I felt extremely embarrassed and disgusted
What the fuck is this post

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Well, I think it might be possible, hard to find, but still possible. Just think about all those closeted homos from the time when being gay was illegal. As long as you don't mind she sleeping with other people, maybe you both could work it out.

Sex doesn't take all that much time, I don't know were this meme is coming from. Chasing partner takes time, but if you do it right it will be part of the normal socialization and of engaging in your hobbies (will also help discovering new hobbies).

I guess that's the classic "saint-whore complex"

>I just had trouble turning off the part of my brain that saw her as a person who smiled the way she did when we made pastries with her grandmother, who never had anyone that didn't sexualize her, and who I improvised dinner with every night.

Would that be necessary for sex though ?

>I spent a lot of time eating her out because that was easy and she loved it.

And she still left you ? Have you considered she was just weird ? Eating out is probably one of the three most efficient ways to keep a girl sexually satisfied.

Not to mention having such autism to break up with someone over a stupid game.

This seems like a weird bait tbdesu.

Not enjoying things is your problem. Why do you think sex would be any different ? Find something you enjoy doing by yourself, or find why you can't enjoy things. The sex will follow naturally, or become a moot point.

You're probably right, also woman making the first move is more a consequence of their character or upbringing than the man being attractive.

Attractiveness helps but many women will literally never approach a guy if he doesn"t make the first move, while others are ready to jump on anything with a beard after a couple beers.

Sex is a waste of time in that it doesn't help you become a better person and therefore isn't an investment upon your soul.
Invest your time wisely. Do something that your future self would be thankful for rather than entertaining the temporary hedonistic indulgences of the present.

>if you play videogames you are a fucking loser anyway

it's 2019 dude, literally everyone plays video games

even if you're celibate you still have to masturbate. that being said i'm volcel right now and try to not masturbate too much. ultimately it's better to have a wife or a girlfriend. celibacy and abstinence are unhealthy

He lied that he was good at it.
Most of the people I hung around (at the time) were big on video games.
Also, I'm sure most people would rather have someone who shares their hobbies than otherwise.

Bit rude. Also, I live near a bunch of arcades and I enjoy the competition. I used to be really good at shooters and racing games but I've moved onto rhythm games like DDR and that one Japanese one where you have to press a bunch of orbs.
It's fun to make friends with people at your arcade and if it weren't so cold right now, I would be there.

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>Sex is a waste of time in that it doesn't help you become a better person

Because you're doing t wrong and probably with the wrong person.
Sex properly engaged with is actually a vehicle for spiritual enrichment, like almost everything that is not intrinsically unhealthy.

Why waste your here then ?
Why do preach what so obviously don't practice ? Does it make you feel better about yourself ?

>have to masturbate
Ever heard of NoFap?
>celibacy and abstinence
>unhealthy
To the contrary, releasing sperm deprives you of energy. Sperm is a substance that can create life, so naturally a lot of nutrients go into its creation and it takes a long time to produce.

>Many men today can attest a very strange phenomenon where their sex drives are higher now in their 20s and 30s than it was in there teenage years.
can confirm

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Thats because everyone has turned into grown up children, not because games are somehow now mature

>Why waste your here then ?
I like to lurk and occasionally post about some authors I like to new readers. Also, there's some good insight on being a better writer which are helpful. Although I'm already well familiar with the philosophy I grew up on, it's interesting to see what other people preach as their philosophy and I believe that it's also helpful in creating a mindset that isn't too judgemental when you interact with those who don't share your same belief system.
Also, it's late at night on a Friday so it's not as though I'm in a hurry to get up and go anywhere. It's freezing and I'm eating my dinner.

>even if you're celibate you still have to masturbate.
defeats the entire fucking point, retard.

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>even if you're celibate you still have to masturbate
you literally don't.

I've always had a pretty low sex drive, even during puberty. I masturbate about once or twice a week, but I lose all interest once I cum. And even during masturbation, my thoughts are always on my own pleasure. I masturbate to the thought of acts being done to me. I have no interest in providing pleasure to another person. I am not even sexually attracted to other people. I can appreciate a person's looks aesthetically, but I have never experienced sexual desire from looks alone, even if the person is nude.

Sex is not worth the time, effort, or social stigma that comes with it.

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It has no stigma in todays society.

shut up, jew
the jews invented sex with adam and eve but i'm gonna end it

>I masturbate to the thought of acts being done to me. I have no interest in providing pleasure to another person.

I'm sure you can guess why this would carry social stigma for a man.

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If it's penetrative, isn't the pleasure mutual?

I have no desire to penetrate anyone. I've only ever had sex with another man.

>volcel
>celibacy is unhealthy
You're willingly unhealthy?

he's not actually a volcel, he just uses that label because he doesn't realise he's actually just a lonely shut in who's basically given up trying to get sex

understanding how womens minds evaluate men has suppressed most sexual desire i have
sometimes i have rape fantasies but they are about power, not sexual gratification
i havent transcended sex, but have a pathological hatred of it

I refuse to be blackpilled on women through faith alone
I know some girls who seem sweet and wholesome and one day when I've got a decent career lined up and I'm capable of providing for a family I'll find the right one to be my wife, and it won't be a shitty mess like Yea Forums greentexts because I'm not a fucking autist nor a pussyworshipping bitch
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the promiscuity of thots, I shall fear no evil

Yeah not possible, woman only love what they cannot have and/or you only if you are socially/economically/emotionally successful enough for there own position.. sorry to say but if options are available and a man is in a better position than your own they will leave you or be on the verge of doing so - perhaps they have kids or whatever and there morals kick in. Love for women is condition based, it is different from our own that we experience being that we can love even the flaws of a girl.. sad truth but a reality we need to accept as men in the current times