Is it socially acceptable to just strike up a conversation with girls on the street?
Is it socially acceptable to just strike up a conversation with girls on the street?
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only if you can read their mind and tell they would be receptive to small talk followed by flirting
Only if you're a chad
Is it socially acceptable to just ask a girl on the street to spit in your mouth?
According to Gillette, no.
is this porn?
If you're tall and/or handsome, yes. Whenever they complain about unwanted attention, it's attention from men who don't satisfy those criteria.
are you attractive? yes.
are you not attractive? no.
This also applies to pretty much every other conceivable action that involves a woman
Depends what country you're in, here in Britain it would be seen as very strange and they would likely think you're trying to sell them something and walk away
it's simultaneously okay and not okay depending on how she feels in current moment.
talking to women is illegal
source
Thought the exact same thing. God I bet her mouth tastes amazing.
Some faggy vlogger from the US apparently went around france and talked up random women + filming it
that chick is being spammed on /int/ right now
It’s one of those street videos where the porn guy picks up girls.
Its never been acceptable to speak to or enter a persons space in Finland
Sauce me
I worked as a pollster in public transportation and most qt grills seemed open to conversation when I approached them, even before I told them it was for a poll. It should only be a matter of not fucking up. The younger the more open they seemed.
it's fucking nothing, she's gorgeous tho
I've seen this girl in a porns
t. cumbrain
yes, but if they indicate that they're uncomfortable or don't want to talk you should respect their personal space and fuck off
t. person who's had sex before
>Toulouse
BLACKED
while anally raping, sure
i hope they filmed it
So she's a French wench?
It's better if you see them at the gym everyday and wait a couple months before striking up the conversations. Then she knows you're not just tripping over your dick to ask her out.
That guy is ugly
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
only if you have a wad of cash
literally the only reason she is speaking to him is because she is told it will be on youtube
I don't know what godless, uncivilized country the anons ITT are from, but here in America people like to talk to strangers. Even if you suck as a conversationalist, they're not going to walk away or try to make you feel bad.
She has a really down to earth vibe though. I can see her just talking randomly.
Reading a girls mind is easy. You have to talk about something theyre already thinking about. So if shes in line at the coffee shop ahead of you on a weekday morning and she orders a triple triple you say, “wow, boss giving you a hard time?” Just be observant and its easy.
i wish i was as naive and childish as you
Which you should be able to pick up on from her body language. Headphones in or staring at phone obviously means “dont talk to me.”
Last time I tried she unironcally started blowing her rape whistle. I never felt more dehumanized in my entire life.
I hope she will settle down with a black guy in a few years and give birth to 3 cute biracial kids. That will be perfect family
i dont wish to be as autistic as you
honestly I feel like you have better odds on the streets than in the club, atleast girls on the street give you that weird look every girl does
I am 25 years old and I never even kissed a girl
Hello, Chang.
That sounds horrible. You should only talk to other people when you are drunk or in a sauna. Unless it's the chirstmass sauna, then you must absolutely remain silent no matter what.
Clubs are awful because girls are surrounded by their friends who will protect them, and loud music so you cant talk to them. But if you go outside to the smoking section its easy to strike up a conversation and theyre drunk.
Only if you are black.
T. Retard
It's ok if you're black
When they blow their rape whistle you have to start singing brazilian music
Would be me if I didn't get lucky and make out with some drunk chick, only happened once though
>approaching random females in the street
Just pretend to be a youtuber and carry a camera around.
You're socially retarded, it's okay though
very rarely
most of the time you look like an annoying cunt or just a creep
You two should study pickup artists. In the end its all BS (being yourself is unironically the key), but it can give you a boost in the right direction and help you find yourselves. David Wygant helped me when I was a kissless 19 year old.
But you need to get over the fear of looking like a creep (which you sometimes will) in order to get good at it.
Hey, Yea Forums, how do I get a cute white blonde-haired gf as a black man?
I tried pick up artist stuff for quite a while, didn't work for me, I'm not dismissing it entirely but I think I'm just not normal enough for it to work for me
It is dependant on the conversation. You can stop any woman for a non sexual conversation (to start with) eg: I like your shirt where’d you get it. Just stopping them from going about their day to straight up come on to them is demeaning
we're all gonna make it one day
Yes but you need to find the right thing to say
if it is, what do you say? what do you talk about?
>tfw 35 year old khv
>taking salsa dance classes
>a couple of 5-7/10 average girls, one 9/10 girl (rest of the girls are older)
>i have no social skills, no friends
how do i talk to the girls in class?
>few minutes before class
>everyone waits in the hall/lobby
>some people talk to each other, some are by themselves not talking to anyone, some are on their phone
>i just stare at my phone like usual
how do i initiate small talk? i can't hold a conversation for more than 60 seconds tbqh
Really struggling to find a commonality, common point of discussion how to chill discussion?
guys how do I escape inceldom?
I'm leaving to a new city for uni
Why the fuck shouldn't I be allowed to be socially inept?
ask them if you could have this dance
Women give off certain body language indicating they want to be approached
But since you’re all autistic you’ll never recognize it
t. Normie
cumbrain
we dance during lessons. it's before and after lessons where i don't say anything to the girls. after class i literally leave, while most others hang back to chat
even when we do dance, i say nothing during the dance
>tfw see other guys talking to the girls, making them laugh sometimes
>wonder what he's saying tbqh
>t. socially retarded scandinavian
If you're not creepy maybe.
it's not up to you, it's entirely up to her. ten years down the line she can decide that it wasn't okay.
>60 seconds
show off
Normal is boring. Ive been called weird my whole life. I am! I use it to my advantage. You want a girl telling you “lmaoo youre so random”
You need get yourself male friends that actively go out and have FUN. Actively searching for girls is playing on hardmode. Next time, try to go with a friend of yours and have fun doing salsa or whatever you want, the girls will come.
same
based
Yeah
I used to do this when PUA was less cringy. (it was actually always cringy)
It's kinda uncomfortable, but once you get through the initial weirdness, it gets ok. Just try to not come off as a salesguy who's trying to sell himself (chicks can read through this easily). Just don't do it the entire time, cuz then you just come off as a weirdo who does this all the time.
Do whatever you want but you need to ask yourself if thats really what you want or if you just use that as an excuse to be complacent, and be honest. At the end of the day if youre happy youre happy. But if you are unhappy...
not him but
>tried this
>girls hit on friends but not me
>friends tried to wingman for me
>girls still left after a few moments of talking
or you could just not do it at all and save yourself the trouble and stress of looking like a creep
probably exaggerating. tbqh, the only people i talk to are family members, work (for work related topics) and cashiers
where do i get male friends?
w-what kind of FUN? i mostly spend my time indoors, except for work and salsa classes tbqh
Not really, no. Sure like 10 % of girls are BPD sluts who will fuck almost any guy who pays attention to them, but the other 90% of women want you to fuck off and stop bothering them.
You will never get a meaningful, faithful relationship by cold approaching strangers in public. that simply isn't how human mating rituals have evolved.
>tfw no friends
Only if you're extremely attractive, or able to pretend you're an artsy camera faggot.
>where do i get male friends?
From work, I had a shitty retail job before moving onto a proper one but the good part of it was that I got a big new social circle from it and still hang out with em now, I'm not sure where else an adult would find friends
Yes it is if you're 8/10+ in my in my experience.
Based
my coworkers all know me as the old, autistic guy that has no social skills
i'm almost a decade older than some of my coworkers, it fucking sucks
;_;
I've tried this "just have fun!" meme all my life and I'm still a kissless virgin, don't listen to this guy.
Just this summer I already went to three different music festivals and I really did "have fun", but none of it even remotely escalated to me getting close to a girl ever.
Most definitely for sports events, like going to watch footie, NFL, etc.
Lads, it ain't hard if you look after yourselves.
why is the average white girl so attractive?
my white fever isn't going to pass any time soon
Jesus fucking christ, are there interesting people left.
Just apply for another job, and hopefully the people there are your age, then you can hopefully bond with them and you'll be starting fresh
please hzlp
no one cares you blogposting nigger
The worst thing that people dont seem to remember here is that if you get a gf you won't know exactly whats expected of you, and you'll have to act like you do because girls dont like finding out their partner has always been alone, and she'll want you to introduce her to your friends and vice versa
I bet you where the faggot without friends that everyone avoided.
>dude just keep changing jobs
Even worse advice than dude just lift weights
Livng with that mentality will drive you insane. Remember, youre a man, you must be willing to take risks in order to suceeed. If we live in a culture today where theres a risk ten years down the road that youll be put in jail for saying hi to a woman on the street, you still have to take that risk, because if you dont youll never learn first hand what your boundaries are. You can only get that through experience.
These are mostly kids who don’t grasp shit tests. Girls are always saying rude shit to make you show your insecurity. Like getting sad/mad when she calls you XYZ.
>Her: “user you act like an enormous weirdo”
>Me:
*Bert Stare*
>Me: “I am an enormous weirdo”
She smiled and said “I fucking HATE guys like you” laughing
Moral being, don’t let them think you’re a pussy worshiper or emotionally invested in what they do
sure if youre a chad
otherwise it‘s rape
This. Only if you're Chad.
dude just lift weights is good advice for health but not for getting women
that user said he's older than most of his co-workers so he's likely capable of more and could have a better job which could lead to friends his own age
Chances are even if you're the biggest incel, you will be presented with opportunities. Don't let it slip because you will regret it years and years down the line.