Is going to see a movie as a first date a terrible idea? What kind of movie is best?

>mean that she's just humoring me?

Yes. Tell her you changed your mind and you're going to take her to a some cool place for a dinner and drinks.

Yea Forums saving the day yet again. thank

Lindsay Ellis looks like THAT?

based real advice giver

Yes because a cinema is a dark intimate place so you can easily come across as a creep. Plus it shows you aren't really interested in getting to know her because you don't talk during a movie. Just take her to a restaurant and let her blab on about herself.

Younger than 21? No it's not.

Older than 21? Yes it is, how are you supposed to get to know someone when you're sitting in silence for at least 90 minutes? Then after all you both are gonna do is talk about the movie.

what do breasts in a sweater feel like bros

>sitting in silence
you're supposed to touch each other and shit, fuckin virgin

Why not invite her to go to dinner first?

If the shit is going south then you can just enjoy a movie.

On a first date in 2019?

Sure buddy.. Enjoy your rape charge :^)

>Is going to see a movie as a first date a terrible idea?

YES. Did this once and il never do it again.

>Meet girl online
>Shes like a 8/10 in the pics she sends
>We get on really well
>Just chat online don't talk on phone at all (Start of where I went wrong)
>She invites me to a movie on a Saturday night
>I go along
>Busy as fuck
>Cant see her anywhere
>Start noticing a bigish girl who is walking around alone starting at her phone txting.
>Realise its her.
>Tell her im there but not where
>See the big girl walking straight over to me
>Realise the photos she sent me online are actually her at her 21st.
>She is now 25 and has put on at least 20kg since then.
>mfw I realise iv been lied to

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I go to the range on the first date
That way we both have a fun time and I know I wont be dealing with any surprises later
I've yet to secure a date, however

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Bags of Sand

And to further my post as to why a movie for a 1st date is a bad idea.
For one a movie lasts for hours. If you don't like each other, you literally have no escape. You have to sit there and pretend to be friendly with someone you don't like.

Movie and dinner, in that order.

You sit awkwardly in each other's company for a while, adjusting to each other's physical presence.

Then you have dinner when the ice is already broken.
You have a shared experience that acts as a starting point for conversation that can be used as a springboard into other aspects of your respective lives

>what did you think of it?
>I saw this other movie the other week, I thought it had better action
>yeah I like action better as well, too much thinking bores me
>I wasn't good at school because numbers hurt
>me too, my parents tried to abort me because of downs syndrome
>omgee user we have so much in common letsu bangu

If you already know and can carry a conversation with the girl THEN you go to a horror movie and you hold her hand to comfort her.

>talking during a movie

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>a cinema is a dark intimate place
lmao

When did this retarded date science meme pop up? "Dude it's a bad idea because you don't get to talk to her"

It's usually a fucking movie AND a dinner and you can talk about the movie during dinner

Go to a movie then get food after, if you run out of things to talk about you can always fall back on the movie to fill in lulls in the conversation.

dumbass bitch retard faggot there are studies showing that you have higher chances of getting laid when watching horror because attraction and fear are so close in the brain

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My first movie date with my girlfriend was Attack of the Clones and Treasure Planet, both in IMAX 70mm when we were 14.
We had sex afterwards, and it was our first time for both of us.
We turned out really well and we got married 15 years later.

Movie dates are our favourite pastime.
One particular movie date was in 2009, when we watched James Cameron's Avatar in IMAX 3D, (500) Days of Summer and Fantastic Mr. Fox, all in one date.

We also watched The Last Jedi in IMAX 70mm as part of our honeymoon.

Before and After I meant.
1st dates its best to just go for a quick coffee and go to a movie on a 2nd or 3rd date when you know you actually like each other.

>confront her about lying
>walk 360 degrees and gtfo
Don't tell me that you humored her user.

man i remember posting this in a few Yea Forums threads a few months ago

my first movie date was mockingjay part 1.
shit sucked but it was a fun date. had pizza afterwards and got to know one another better.

>complaining about surprise slampig

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>We also watched The Last Jedi in IMAX 70mm as part of our honeymoon.

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>>walk 360 degrees and gtfo
>360

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Seems like a terrible idea. I've only been to the movies twice with my gf because we're long distance and usually only have 2-3 days together every other month, and it's a waste of time sitting next to each other and not talking.

Whomst is this Asian lady?

fuck off reddit tourist

Quick bite to eat and then a movie is a great idea.

Its 180 you fucking mutt.

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newfag

Tier list of first date spots
>God tier
Normal restaurant (nothing fancy)
Miniature golf
Art gallery/museum

>Good tier
Your/her place
Park
Some local event in your area (music gig etc.)

>Bad tier
Movies
Big music festival
Expensive restaurant

>Shit tier
Your mum's place

I'm a virgin btw don't trust this info.

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>first date spots
>Good tier
>Your/her place
No way man. That's how you end up with unwanted stalking if your date turns out crazy.

I dont like movie dates. Last one I went out on she was laughing at parts that werent funny, and she had this loud annoying laugh too. but fucking hell her ass was FAT. Like FUCK. Amazing fat distribution, so i put up with it. Worst part is that we didn't smash though. Don't judge but I was 20 and she was a 34 year old milf. At the end of the date I went to kiss her and she wouldn't and said that the age difference was too much for her (she was constantly talking about it before hand). I was a retard and was like "ok I understand" instead of pushing it, which is OBVIOUSLY what she wanted to happen. Oh well Im a retard.

Anyway my best dates have been when we're doing something active. Im into bouldering so I always take them to a bouldering gym for the first date. You can check her out, and she checks you out, and during the rest periods you can just sit and chat and if theres empty pauses you can fill them in with talks about what route you're doing next and how to do it. Plus I dont know why but they're always horny after climbing. me too desu so it's good.

>Studies on getting laid

lol

This is worth considering.

Iv been seeing a woman 10 years my senior and she cant let the fucking age gap go either.
Iv fucked her 3 times tho but now she wont see me.

>he doesn't compile statistics with an excel sheet tracking successful date spots to guarantee the success of his progeny

Imagine being on the internet this long and not knowing about majority of women who aren't journalists

I've fucked more girls than everyone else in this thread combined.

Movies are not first date material.

Movies are what you say you're going to watch when you get her back to your place and instead you fuck her.

That is all the combining of women and movies your life will ever need.

t.chad thundercock

>take girl out to a movies on first date
>have something to eat before the movie
>we barely talk
>we have almost nothing in common and have nothing to talk about
>go watch the movie
>she keeps her distance from me
>autistically do the yawn reach thing after having no touch prior
>she humors me but doesn’t even put her head on my shoulder and hides her face whenever someone walks by
>take her home and says she doesn’t want a boyfriend
>see her with a boyfriend a few weeks later
Never again

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>s going to see a movie as a first date a terrible idea?

Yes. First dates should be you two being able to chat over an activity or dinner. Getting to know each other.

Movies are where you sit silently and don't talk to each other for like 2 hours, then split ways after. Save that for like date 3 or something when you both know you're gonna bang or something after the movie.

Please stop posting the Korean F-cup girl. I fuck but her pics make me feel like a desperate incel

Based and chad pilled.

They feel fine but honestly you are getting 95% of the joy from just looking

FOR ANY VIRGINS LOOKING FOR THE LITERAL EASIEST WAY TO GET LAID
Just ask them if they want to play Mario Kart or some other party game shit where you have to interact with each-other.
I use this shit on my sister and she comes over every weekend to play it.

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People throw around phrases like “kill yourself” quite casually these days but this post actually merits it. Kill
yourself. Tonight.

At this point I don't know if there is always someone who falls for it or just some zoomerfag "merely pretending"

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oof

>I fuck but her pics make me feel like a desperate incel
That just means you're settling for ugly girls.

There was no 70mm cut of TLJ. There was laser imax but that’s not 70. Only QT, PTA, and a few others get to release shit in 70. I guess it’s my job to educate you so you’re welcome

why would you take some you don't share any interests on a date?

>360 degrees
>not 2π radians
D R O P P E D
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Just go to a bar and have a some drinks. Both of you will loosen up, the conversation flows more freely, and she’ll be more willing to fuck you afterwards.

Dinner at a restaurant is best for a third date, maybe second.

Just forget the whole movies idea altogether unless you invite her to your place to watch a movie, and put some shit like Home Alone on so you’re not too invested in the fucking thing. Then finger her.

>movie as a first date
Go somewhere nice to eat or drink and then a movie date later.

go to a fucking bar
don't waste your money on fancy dinners on a woman you might not see again.

Did you seriously marry the only girl you've ever had sex with?
LMAO

Because I’m lonely and horny and don’t have many options

>at party
>some random German girl is into me
>I'm feeling her up
>a moment later a guy walks up and makes out with her
>I find out she was just trying to make that guy feel jealous

Not sure if I should feel offended that she tricked me or proud that she thought I was someone that would make him jealous

Only a literal incel would act like 9.5/10-face south korean girls with 80’s playboy tits = normal

i dont trust it anymore since xbox 360 days where you could just say something specifically that stupid and out of the know and get guaranteed morons sperging out over correcting you. its so easy.

>Yes hello m'lady would you like to come over to my place and play on my Nintendo Switch?

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Cope.
Maybe hit the gym sometime.

adding onto this user's post, I wouldn't go somewhere fancy/formal for dinner. you probably weren;t thinking that right user? but I just point it out anyway.

There was a 70mm release of The Last Jedi, but it was only screened in 11 screens in the US and one screen in the UK.

We had to put our relationship on hold when she moved to another place when we were 15.
After that, we would only talk via. emails, online messages, and even MMOs, though I did visit her from time to time and we went on some dates.
I had so many exes while we were on hold that it's not funny. I seriously lost count.
As for her, she apparently never found the right one for her that isn't me.
She said they have nothing on me so she never pursued a relationship with another man.
I was much bigger (I am 7'4" and I have a very muscular yet lithe build), stronger, prettier (despite being a man, I have a very womanly face, to the point that some people say that my face just screams "strong, independent woman" despite the fact that I am a man), more handsome, smarter, wiser, richer, sweeter and nicer than any of them.
And most men wouldn't be attracted to her since she literally looks like a prepubescent child despite the fact that she's already 30 at this time, she is very small at the height of 4'4", though.

We reunited about four years ago and since then, our relationship has been very smooth.
Then we got married two years after.
Also, we often have threesomes with this athletic 6'4" woman who is also my best friend.

cool story bro

Are you saying that this strong, independent woman (male) is lying?

If you are dating a girl, anything pg-13 or under, as they have small brains
If dating your best bud, anything goes.

honk honk

>tfw no 4'4" legal loli gf
>tfw no 6'4" athlete gf
>tfw no strong, independent 7'4" athlete Karen MILF gf (male)

Go away, Karen.
Keep having sex with your underage daughter and speak to the manager but please leave 4channel.
Nobody believes that you're a straight man.

You're actually a lesbian single mother.

how do I get a perfect Asian gf like this?

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I'm beginning to think this tripfag isn't actually a giant man with a qt wife.
"He"'s probably actually a lesbian single mother who pretends to be a man and trolls anons as a veiled attempt at telling them to have sex.
She's also probably a raving SJW, by saying things like "I'm a strong, independent woman".
As for the childlike wife, she probably bangs her own daughter.

Still, I imagine she's a really hot middle-aged mom.

>attack of the clones
based

Going to se a movies is only a good first date idea if you're in middle /highschool.
It doesn't give you a chance to talk, get to know eachother, not to mention it could be a bad movie which she could resent you for.
Now if you're old enough to drink, you're gonna want to go grab some cheeky drinks and just hang out, maybe do a pub crawl.

Going out to dinner is too pre-boomer tier , clichéd and potentially too formal. You're gonna want to keep it casual, and do something you feel comfortable with don't try too hard.
Ask questions about semi-personal stuff (e.g what's your favourite part about your job, major, hometown?. What's been the best day in your life so far? Etc) . Avoid talking about things that could be considered small talk.

t. Total sperg who figured out how to become dateable and liked by girls after years of trial and error

Actual chad here, movie date is bad idea.

Depends on where you live but usually you want to do something casual and change locations.

For example maybe grab fro yo/whatever trendy shit girls are into, walk in a nice park, and check out an art gallery.

Obviously if it's a night date change ice cream for 1-2 drinks at the bar.

Always try to have the date close to your place.

Dating in America must suck cause you have to wait until you're 21 to have fun.

I wish I could say that was my excuse for getting my first date at 23

>Actual chad here
the fact that you have to say it means that you're not
>that spacing
you need to go back

>despite being a man, I have a very womanly face, to the point that some people say that my face just screams "strong, independent woman" despite the fact that I am a man
WTF people think you're butch dyke?

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wow look at the brain on this guy

Yes. You sit in the dark for two hours and don't say anything to each other. Dates, at least initially, are meant for the purposes to get to know one another. A movie on the first date is always a bad idea. Coffee, lunch or dinner are the best scenarios for a first date. Also "dinner and a movie" is a terrible idea too, so don't even think about that.

actually I was just baited because of my yellow fever into this thread.

Only did this once, it was a love movie, girl cried. Was too shy to take advantage of the situation. I just went back to fucking drunk girls picked up in bars untill I got a real girlfriend

First date is drink or coffee, keep it short and sweet. No movies until after you've fucked it.

First date is fucking and full toilet service.

You do have an escape. Say "I need to go to the toilet", calmly leave the screen, then bolt.

Good chance to squeeze out some time farts.

youtube.com/watch?v=46RQWmhi60U

my first date is usually getting to know the AMP girl and giving a nice tip so she remembers me for next time

Exactly.
Some people do.

Usually better to break out the /k/ stuff over the first dinner and not dump her straight into it, If a gurl took me to a pony ranch or some wild shopping spree it be a bit off put myself

go easy, be yourself and don't stutter.

Juasicko
instagram.com/juasicko/
youtube.com/user/Jueatiful/about

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Some chicks like guns and like to shoot and a lot can be persuaded into trying it and end up liking it.
But ponies/horses are like the girl equivalent of miniature trains and tanks/airplanes.
I don't know ANY guy who's into horses the way (some) chicks are and vice versa, I've never ever seen a girl fascinated by tanks or locomotives.

She cute

Invite her to have dinner/drinks afterwards and you can discuss about the movie

Usually I set up for the first date being fairly short and getting to know each other (that way if it doesn't feel like we're going any further less time invested). If she's an outdoor type we get some food we can walk with until we find a nice spot to sit and chat. Second date is a bit more casual and showing them your "laid back" side. Going bowling, a local festival, or the street light game where you guys pick a random spot to visit just stay interesting. Usually lock in the first kiss by then and solidify the intent to date further. Third date is the slow cooker date . We plan for her to come by and head back out, but before we set up a slow cooker on low and we both add ingredients and spices to what we feel like would taste the best (helps with learning what they actually have a taste for and food options in the future). We put it on low and slow and we leave to go for a walk(preferably drive so she doesn't feel too hot or sweaty after) to a local Wal-Mart where we pick cheesy 3 dollar dvds to watch, some drinks that will go with the slow cooker food and light snacks. After that you get back to the place and try out the food. If it's good that's great and if it's not it's a funny joke and you guys can order takeout or delivery and laugh about the creation. Settle in for some laughably bad movies with some corny jokes between both and a couple light drinks. I've never had an issue once using this method of date 3. Usually they put out or at very least heavy make out. And then by the next meeting she's put out.

Happy hunting lads.

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Seems like a lot of effort I'd rather just stay home and jerk off to anime girls thank you

It can be. But it's usually how I pick up 8/10 and up white chicks. My favorite anime girl is Wanko from Sankarea.

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Mommy Asians are the best

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I used to think going to the movies as a first date was kinda lame. I'd rather go somewhere and talk. Then after spending time talking to women I realized going to see a movie is perfect.

Most of the girls I date don't drink.

Oh shit, it's summer. I thought global warming was the reason it's so hot outside.

first few dates should only be activities you can talk

an arcade would be better than a fucking dumb shit movie where you just sit there for hours

It's shit. I went to a movie with a girl recently and at most she put her head on my shoulder and I played with her hair. Better go in a few normal dates and then invite her to you house to watch Netflix and then try to fuck her right there.

Working out always gets me going, idk. Sports might do something with the hormones.

this happened to me as well. i initiated plan B.
we went in to watch the movie (I am legend) about half way through she reaches over and holds my hand. I decided that plan B was the only way.

Go to a Cafe together and drink coffee. The casual atmosphere makes it easier for you to be comfortable. Or go and drink beer somewhere. Restaurants gets too formal for a first date and it's more difficult to end it short if it's awkward.

Going for a walk together after coffee is very nice and comfy.

I don't think watching cinema is the best idea for a first date.

Do women really do this?

Holy fuck being a normie sounds tedious

Hides her face? Wtf

Yes it’s a terrible idea.
If you do it tho, torture porn at the spank bank.

Make a first date 30 minutes and then go somewhere else after the 30 minutes if you two want to see more of each other. Most first dates go terrible so 30 minutes and 20 bucks is a relatively low investment.

how disgusting

First date is all about meeting each other and learning about each other. You need to be talking to do that, not only that but your attention needs to be on the other person.

A movie date is somewhere down the line. But for firsts I find it better to taker her out and talk

a man of taste i see

Yes it’s a terrible idea. You want to go hiking or something like that where you can get some physical activity to release good hormones and also be able to talk and get to know each other. Then when you’re deep enough in the woods slit her throat and rape the neck wound.

Got a pot you should meet mr kettle. Take her out to a horror flick.

It is. Don't even try. The rewards are not worth it.

It really is too much work and not worth the effort.
Thats why i‘m still a khv in late 20s.

What about normal sized golf?

this worked for me, remember to make an effort to put your arm around her and show her you are interested and park somewhere towards the back of the parkinglot if you get lucky

nobody dates anymore. You just meet up to fuck.

If it's just a movie, it's awful. If it's dinner and a movie it's fine. Make sure dinner is after so if conversation starts to stale you can talk about the movie.

also never trust women who have photos with snapchat filters on
>meet online girl
>she's like 7.5/10 qt with glasses
>see her irl
>she's straight up fucking ugly, chubby, had bad breath and straight up weird
> still spend hours on the date because i was too scared to confront her
i texted her i'm not interested afterwards. probably could've fucked her, though i'd probably regret it. still a virgin in my 20s.

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>Buy projector
>Take her to your house to watch Blade Runner 2049
>Max sound
>Break down multiple times
If you scream "GOD DAMMIT!" louder than The Goose, she'll marry you on the spot.

The main problem isn't just what the filters do to how they look. If they even have a snapchat account, they are beyond saving.

God I wish i wish i could do that

You can. If money is the issue, sell everything.
If you landed up here, or even need to ask for advice like this, you've been punished throughout life so much that a loud Goose Scream is possible.

>The main problem isn't just what the filters do to how they look.
nah, they make everyone decent looking. not only they give insane make-up, every filter changes even bone structure n shit. basically every pic with a filter should be discarded. look for IRL pics took during events n shit, that's as close to reality as it gets
>If they even have a snapchat account, they are beyond saving.
that's LITERALLY 90% of women aged 16-25. i'm not even kidding, finding a woman without a snapchat account is impossible these days.

>nah, they make everyone decent looking. not only they give insane make-up, every filter changes even bone structure n shit. basically every pic with a filter should be discarded. look for IRL pics took during events n shit, that's as close to reality as it gets
Oh, I never denied it's a massive problem, just not the largest one.

>that's LITERALLY 90% of women aged 16-25. i'm not even kidding, finding a woman without a snapchat account is impossible these days.
Finding a woman who won't divorce rape you is impossible too, it shouldn't stop you from trying.

Yeh don’t do that m9, it’s basically implying you have no social skills. Unless you’ve been seeing the girl for a while and pick and actual film she will appreciate.

i have always found it extremely awkward to just meet a person and then sit quietly next to them for 2 hours. i would suggest an activity like eating out, or going to a museum before that.

Yeah her pussy

>she's just humoring me?
The mere fact that she already said yes to dating you already means she likes you.
Yeah, sure, watching a movie on the first date isn't really the best way to do a first date, but she already agreed to it. That means she already agreed to that even though it's your first date together, which means she likes you.
Be a man and watch the movie since you already said it, instead of being wishy washy with decision making, but take her to dinner or someplace else too afterwards.
At least you have something to talk about.

*sight* time to obsess over another girl who doesn't even know i exist

That's probably too expensive so it might fall down the fancy category.

Holy fucking shit. Just be real and true to yourself. What do you want a girl for if you put on a mask everytime you see her and won't show her your true self.
What's the point, dude?

Show he Yea Forums on your first date.

>replies to pic of fancy asian with a jungle asian

t. Dennis reynolds

Movie and dinner is a kino first date.
You can guage exactly what kind of person they are and how their mind ticks when you discuss the film afterwards. It's the brainlet thot filter.

Robots don't get that saying normie is an insult to yourself. Robots internalizing being intelligent as a coping mechanism for being socially retarded.

coffee date

The point is to not sperg out the couple first dates you take her out with. It's pretty crucial to at least convince the other party that you're worth dating.
You don't immediately tell the person you're dating about your dad's cock inside your anus, but you may eventually want them to know about it when you're both ready.

Why not e^(i*pi/2), big brain.

>revealing your power level
first mistake

Who is the girl in OP's picture? I need her name.

So what’re the chances that fox tail is actually held in place inside his rectum?

Best post in thread, too add to other places: fun restaurants: all you can eat sushi places where you order stuff constantly are good. Or somewhere that has neat appetizers where they light the cheese on fire.

I usually go to my bed for the first date, or her's if I'm feeling adventurous.

>drink coffee
>have to shit in the middle of the date
great advice

My right or her right?

sorry I assumed you were a normal human and not a shitmonster

>all the retards itt
Yes a movie on its own isnt a great idea. But what you are supposed to do is dinner AND a movie. Use the dinner to talk and whatnot. Then go catch the movie. It gives you the opprotunity to discuss the movie after and has the added bonus of it being so late that the female might be open to staying at your place

Just go out to dinner nothing to fancy or too cheap. Chat it up joke but don't quiz her about her future or shit like that. You're not her father or marrying her next week. Movies come later once you're a couple. Worst thing is at the theater you're both watching and sitting for 2 hours not talking to each other because the theater ain't much of a place for full convos so the end of the night comes and you wasted that time.
Not to mention what if she hates the movie or you hate her choice of film?

>dinner

And remind him not to stuff himself then fart up the theater

Take her to your local indie movie theater and watch some local kino and if she doesn't like it you know to dump her right there.

360 degrees....

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>not moonwalking away
the absolute state of this board

Movies are bad dates period unless you're watching one at home with a girl. You need to take a woman somewhere a lover would take her. Dinner, drinks, whatever. A movie is what a friend would do. Not to mention she can't talk to you at a movie, therefore you have no opportunity to raise her attraction by how you talk to her back.

How do you say farewell after first meetings? A casual hug?

>therefore you have no opportunity to raise her attraction by how you talk to her back.
Life's not a dating sim.

Its good if they have seats you can cuddle in, if not its good for a third date.

seekingarrangment.com

How to cure yellow fever?

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Nothing to be cured of friend. You've ascended.

>See you later alligator

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When people are talking about attractive asians, please dont post dirty flips and viets. Christ I can practically see the hawian shirt on you already