Past a certain age, a man who hasn't experienced teen love can be a bad thing

Past a certain age, a man who hasn't experienced teen love can be a bad thing

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Hey, it's alright. There's always plenty of teens.

>tfw actually crush into a summer love when i was 14 and listened to dashboard confessional's stolen every day for weeks after parting and texting with her faded away

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>teen love

teens are fucking immature and annoying as hell

Just once I'd like to know what it feels like. To have someone to hold who loves you.

>your oneitus that turned you down when you asked her out still messages you on your birthday and asks how youre doing

JUST LEAVE ME ALONE

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What age?

I am of certain age and I don't have my own family. Can I be a bad thing?

she knows and enjoys torturing you

14

gave off of social media, or at least facebook. I deleted mine right after high school and my life got so much better

While the average of men losing virginity is 16, this stat precedes tinder so I imagine these days it’s probably 20-23. Watch in the next couple of years it will increase.

based
cringe

Nah. Most people are not abnormal. Yea Forums is just a place where the minority of KHVs congregate so you're under the impression that it's a large scale phenomenon when >20 yo male virgins are just as rare, weird and creepy as ever.

Simp

Block her number.

Take your age then multiply it by 0.5

Bruh a study found that 30% of men aren’t having relationships and the amount of people having sex and kids is literally less than the last two generations. The problems in Japan are occurring everywhere in first world country’s.

>a study
Is it trustworthy, or is it just a Vice article?

I doubt that. Sex is easy and even I have bumbled my way to it. You guys just get obsessed over little shit that doesn't matter and end up making it a big deal. Just develop some persona doesn't have to be your own and act like a character. It's stupid but it works a lot.

Well, I'm fucked. Guess I'm going to live on my own now for the rest of my life.

Might be true but teenage love is one of the most intense emotional experiences life has to offer.

>Sex and relationships are easy

No there not if they were lonely people and incels/robots would not exist lad.

They actually are easy after you're used to getting there. That first time is super awkward on both tho.

Incels are the bottom 10% that have such shit personalities there's no hope for them. They've always existed, the internet just gave them voices.

>Tfw couldn't experience teen love because I was afraid of getting out of the closet and how everyone around me would judge me
It hurts. It still hurts.

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Honestly I’m trying but it’s very difficult, I’m been losing weight and excercising every day. I guess the good thing is that in the future we will have Jois just in case.

I’m trying to pretend to be Patrick Bateman. It’s pretty hard.

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Alright, lets be real for a second here.
The overwhelming majority of people could absolutely have unpaid sex if they wanted to (yes, even you). I'm saying this because unless you're either horribly disfigured or the biggest asshole on the planet, chances are you know of at least ONE person who would gladly have sex with you.
Of course this person might not appeal to you for whatever reason, but that's another matter entirely.

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>chances are you know of at least ONE person who would gladly have sex with you.
Jesus, you are fucking delusional my man. I know literally nobody aside from my family.

childhood abuse?

I agree if you've never fucked an under 20 years old (obviously when you where around that age) it could be a bad thing. Personally i had a 16 years old gf when i was 19 and a 17 (then turned 18) gf when i was 21.

I have experienced teen love but it was fag love

>Faggots in my fourchannel
Oh no...

Just came in your wife's ass, Marty

teen love is (almost by definition) stupid, don't dwell on it so much

Especially since Paul Allen makes more than you do, and has a slightly nicer haircut.

just because someone's not an incel robot doesn't mean they had a blissful or at all desirable adolescence. Television isn't real, actual teenagers are jerks who are not capable of feeling love or empathy for the most part, you could never put their social life on TV and have anyone bear to watch, least of all themselves.

ask her out autist. if she didn’t like you she wouldn’t contact you at all

I'm not an incel nor completely useless with girls, I've had a couple of gfs, one of them for 5 years, and an occasional bar hook up. I can tell you that I still find it hard af. It's mostly chance whether you meet someone you click well with, then yeah, it's easy. But that doesn't happen very often, at least not to me.

He just need a personality

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no one is out of the closet as a teenager
>ask out my crush because he seems gay
>get rejected because he says he doesn’t like boys
>four years later he comes onto me at a party
>my gaydar was right, he was just closeted

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How did you ask her out? And anyway, just tell her that you don't want to be friends, she either goes out with you or leaves you alone. Win-win.

>you will never turn back time
>these experiences never happened and will never happen to you
Honestly and I'm not asking this as a rhetorical question, what the fuck is even the point in trying? I never did the stuff other people did and now I'm emotionally stunted and bitter. I don't see the point.
And yet I don't know how to genuinely abandon all hope, I wish I could.

I don't get some virgins on Yea Forums who cry about wanting a gf while acknowleding that they are garbage. I mean, even if you improved enough to find and attract somebody, do you really think that your latent autistic traits aren't going to rear its head up some point, that your potential gf wouldn't grow tired of your ass/be hurt by you and end the relationship, while leaving you more miserable than you once were? It very well may be a cope, but even despite wanting to have and care for somebody I rationally know that I should remain alone. But maybe the anons here just want the pussy too bad to care about the future.

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Towards the end of my lonely highschool career, I finally made an effort to force myself out of my shell and joined the drama club. It was embarrassing at first (or the whole time, more likely), but I actually turned out to be a fairly decent singer, I'd always had a good ear for tone. There was one girl there in the club, a redhead, with that bright natural orange-gold-red hair that might be called ginger, with pale creamy skin, a hint of freckles, and vivid green eyes. She wasn't one of the most popular girls-- those lusty types with the low cut shirts and the makeup and makeup and jewelry, but neither was she one of the closeted shy nerdy types. She was just right in the middle, the kind of person that would be thought of as a "good woman" in another 10 years. Clever, kind, dependable, the kind you could rely on to take care of all the details to make sure the show went on, with a wry yet gentle smile. While I never interacted with any girl much, I did find it oddly easier to get along with her, there was something accepting and intimidating in her manner.

Well, nothing much happened in those high school days, but by some coincidence after I entered college we ended up entering the same university. We happened to bump into each other and took a walk through the streets of the small college town, just talking about all sorts of meaningless nothings I can't remember, comfortably passing the time. We ended up near a fast food restaurant where she was going to meet up with her friends.

Reliable and more or less regular sexual relief is as valid a reason as any other for getting a gf, fuck what anyone else says.

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I'm frustrated because I've failed to do something that other people manage to do pretty naturally as kids without even thinking about it too hard. It's like being too inept to walk or take a shit alone. It's humiliating and depressing.

Standing together in that small enclosed lobby that served like a tunnel between the restaurant and the outside world, I don't know, maybe it was the fluorescent lights, but her eyes seemed to glow with a surreal, transcendent green beauty. Like emeralds shining with the light of their own inner suns, casting their brilliance out with all the promise of endlessly fertile grassy fields. For all my dopey, inexperienced awkwardness, I couldn't help it, I just said out loud right then and there: "Your eyes are so green, they're so beautiful." She said something in response like "Oh yeah?" but it wasn't her words. She just stood there, consciously close to me, her eyes wide open and innocent, those beautiful phosphorescent stars gazing right into mine. A pause that seemed to last forever, like a dust mote trapped in a sunbeam, the two of us just looking at each other, stretching into infinity. Then it was suddenly over, we said our goodbyes with polite smiles, and I turned and left.

I never saw her again.

>I doubt that
your doubts are worth shit compared to all the science and evidence

if you dont think shit is gonna hit the fan when this baby hits 50% you're a retard
myself i am married and will enjoy watching the world burn

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*accepting and unintimidating

You can get whores then, the point in getting a gf is almost always more about self-validation, and emotional fulfillment instead of just sex.

Isn't it like being ashamed of being the last person in a race during a PE class, when you were born with a fucked up knee?

More like feeling like shit for having the fucked up knee in the first place.

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easier said than done, but there's no point in beating yourself up about the shit you can't change. of course it doesn't mean that you should become a slob PoS and not work on yourself in areas where you can improve.

There's no point in a lot of things we do but it's not like I can stop doing something just by realizing it's not productive. That feeling of being defective deeply fucks with me.

The real problem is that we grew up on Friends and Seinfeld thinking that it's normal to have a new sexual partner or even a girlfriend every fucking week by randomly meeting a hot girl in a coffeeshop. It's really not, vast majority of people are in long term relationships, having been with only a few or one people in their life. The rest is alone, until they happen to stumble into something. A small minority can get laid regularly by different people, but for them it's lots and lots of trial and error and basically hard work. It's not at all normal. So stop obsessing about it.

>we
speak for yourself, loser
friends and seinfeld are both for completely brainless dimwits

Here buddy, you dropped this

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Are these posts like supposed to make you feel better about your shitty life? Because like it or not, most of the people here are pretty normal people with average sex life just looking to troll some asshurt lefties.

Speak for yourself, I'm a genuine fucking loser

proof that Yea Forums is stuck with emotional immaturity. older women (aged late 20's +) are 1000x times better than teens. at literally everything. sex, conversation and willingness to do new stuff. grow up you fags and stop staring at teenage girls. start staring at older ladies.

cope

indeed, teen love is a mega-meme, in real life teen love is you "go out" for two weeks, very awkwardly fumble around only to boast to your friends about it, fall out over something dumb and have a huge drama fight that fucks everything else up

That sucks you had a bad experience. I'll never forget my teen love.

I experienced teenage love when I was 25 and she was 22. We were both cringe and retarded, I regretted everything I did during that time.

Everyone is defective. It's a result of infant mortality going from 40% to 1%. We're all just circling the drain at this point.

Fuck off. I never got diddled as a kid. Still turned out gay though. No idea why but that's the way things are.

In that particular area of life, most people are not. Everyone has some issues of their own, but most people are clearly functional enough to find companionship without obsessing over it.

>tfw too much of a pussy to actually reveal true feelings to best friend/girl I was in love with
>let her go from boyfriend to boyfriend
>became salty in the process and pushed her away from me
>found out later she actually liked me too
>still a giant vagina

It was in the Washington Post.