Binge watched Stranger Things season 3. Should i be concerned for myself because of my lack (absolutely nothing) of childhood/teenage social expirience ? I can't form connections with people.
Binge watched Stranger Things season 3...
you should be very concerned. I can't enjoy movies that features teenage love anymore because it hurts too much.
Yeah
No. It's a caricature of friendship and/or love.
I had a gf that looked just like max. I miss her sometimes
yeah i realised it too. I thought it's because "ewh dude love is cringe what are you a bitch" now i think i know why i said shit like that. How the fuck should i deal with it ?
bruh
>How the fuck should i deal with it ?
Wallow in self pity
shieeet that's some bad shit right here
I rode bikes around with my two misfits buddies constantly as a kid. There was nothing else to do. Then I started having sex at 13 and never spoke to those dorks ever again.
That just means you're a filthy zoomer, op. You know what you need to do.
Are you also a yucky negro?
>I can't form connections with people.
what do you even mean by this?
Nah, whiteboi
that's just mean im too twisted for Jessica...
Literally the best years of your life wasted. Especially bad if you spent significant time on Yea Forums between ages 12-22.
>Literally the best years of your life wasted
I already feel like that
>Especially bad if you spent significant time on Yea Forums between ages 12-22
Only from 18 to 20... oh well...
Opposite for me, I love this shit.
have you ever thought about it differently?
how can you make connections with broken people?
how can you live with passion in a sick society?
People who think something's wrong with them are usually healthy in a degenerate environment
soap box over
sounds like some serious coping
You are fucked, just like me.
I fell off the wagon at ~13. Lost my last "friends" when I was 16-ish.
No friends for... oh, 20 years?
Yeah i mean i live in a neighborhood full of drug addicts and white trash. I just anyway think that im fucked up if i never had my own cool social circle and first teenage love. I literally never loved anyone except my family
Is it really ruins lifes ? i mean i feel fucked up about it but i sure have future career wise. That social shit... yeah im fucked up with that.
Stop holding on to hatred and anger at others and strive to learn from other people's experiences while keeping an empathetic and open mindset. Don't listen to the bitter trolls on here. This is the only way you can save yourself, good luck.
Oh you can be an office drone. I'm one, a code monkey.
You'll just never be a real person. I mean, a family man. Or an interesting individual.
No, depending on the circumstances you'll be a quiet man, or you'll be a functioning alcoholic, or something. 1% chance of running amok, guns blazing.
>literally had a joke from my "friends" about me being a "real boy"
what the fuck is that shit
they know you're a broken robot, they can smell it
please do not malfunction lethally
It'll only ruin your life if you keep putting energy into this feedback loop of blaming others for leaving you out and being "degenerate" causing you to further isolate yourself etc. Put energy into creating being part of the community around you.
People can have rich lives and hobbies outside their jobs. Stop playing video games.
yeah i will try that. I just really feel like im fucking broken or some shit. I def got unlucky with enviroment but i guess i need to figure it out. Thank you for your input.
I think you missed the point. You will not have a rich life without human interaction and meaningful friendship. Getting those pretty much requires getting good at all the social stuff, and it is hard if you fall to solitude at a young age, or if you're autistic from the get-go. People can smell your desperation, they see your weird, janky behavior. They'd rather not associate with low-quality humans.
All that human interaction bullshit, that is what actually matters, and you gotta practice it every day of your life.No man is an island.
If you are a self sufficient adult no one can tell you how to spend your free time. You earn your right to do what you please.
If you're a stay at home neet off yourself
Everyone's broken, it's the human condition. We're gifted with knowledge about reality but our subjectivity limits this knowledge and makes living among other subjects painful.
Yeah i guess. I meant broken in terms of my lack of empathy and connections. like this dude said but im not that pessimistic. I really liked what said. I will solve that shit.
>People can smell your desperation, they see your weird, janky behavior. They'd rather not associate with low-quality humans.
People aren't as judgement and mean all the time as you think they are. They're mostly all just worried you're noticing their weird janky behavior. People are mostly nice and just want nice things to happen. I agree with your main point though