How is it possible to be a virgin past the age of 20?

>wa-la

For me, it's being an avoidant, autistic, shut in and lacking any form of charisma, humor, or any other appealing personality trait.

Literally me, hits too close to home

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Honestly this is half the battle. I faked not being a virgin and suddenly it was easy.

Just lie and act confident. No one has to know.

fuck outta here

t. butthurt Walton children

this PLUS

when you spend so much time on the Internet, the speed of things move at the pace of thought (in that all emotions are happening as fast as you react to them). People are slower...it’s the difference between tennis and badminton. Here’s a tip; if you suffer from social anxiety, slow down. Oftentimes the awkwardness ensues from over anticipating the other person and being too quick to react or prepared for something that doesn’t happen and there’s that dead space.

It gets tiresome after a while

ESPECIALLY if you went to college/uni. That shit is easy mode for having sex

The chicken bake is superior to both.

Wow didn't expect to get some actual solid advice on Yea Forums today

this except when you meet a girl you like dont lie shell find out and your life will be at the beginning all over

This is literally the reasoning behind Newtypes in Gundam and why every Gundam protag is an autist

Speaking of America, I went to Costco in my town/city yesterday.

It's the refined sugars, oils and all that preservative shit in the food you eat. Makes your testosterone turn to jelly.

kek I don't know if it was from watching too much instructional porn or not but when I did finally get with a girl I blew her fucking mind and was never the wiser that I was a virgin post 20 years old

Lurk /ck/ more, reddit

Morality and self-control.

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who else not a virgin but has long dry spells?

I got like a few months ago, but it'd been over a year since the last one

How am I Reddit because I don't browse every single niche board on here.

When I actually get dates things go pretty smoothly, the problem is getting the dates, I tend to be off putting to strangers until they take a minute to get to know me, which most aren't willing too

*got laid

Stop pedestalling women. You have to realize that they're just as much of a sloppy pig as you. They also want to fuck. And believe it or not, they loooooathe actual chivalry. "Chicks dig assholes" but only because they're insanely attracted to confidence. Fake it til you make it, fellas, that's the only way around this. Suppress the disappointments and the anger/sadness at rejections and keep on moving. Fear of rejection is probably the biggest contributor to inceldom. The internet and playing too many video games are indeed problems, but plenty of dickheads glued to their phones or TVs are getting it in on the reg. Think of who your most looked up to hero is (it used to be "dad" until Gen Xers dropped the fucking ball as parents and subsequent gens never recovered) and think "would so and so hero hesitate to do whatever it is he/she does to kick ass, or would they go full bore balls deep with reckless abandon".

If you're ugly and/or short, then I'm sorry. At least work out, dress nice, and de-uglify yourself as much as possible and you should be able to swing 6's eventually.

share that instructional material bro

sums up my entire existence perfectly at 26yo

Nina Hartley has alot of instructional stuff, in general there is just alot of instruction porn out there

You're pretty much fucked if you manage to finish college and hold on to your virginity. Opportunity to meet girls drops DRASTICALLY

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dopamine hits from extreme fat =/= good food

>tfw dated a lot in my late teens and early 20s
>banged a lot of pretty girls
>now I can barely even meet girls
>only get laid 1-2 times a year at 28

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Literally all you have to do is nothing and you'll never have sex. You can live your life, exist in the world, do things, interact with people but unless you actively pursue women (and for some people even if) it's just not going to happen.
I've never tried to make a move on someone, and as a result it hasn't happened. It's very simple.

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until someone presses you on something specific when they think it's friendly banter and you look like an idiot

if you're normal looking and have a good group of friends it gets harder but its not impossible. If you're below average and don't have many friends it gets so much harder. I tell this to everyone now. Fuck as much as you can in school.

Not who you're replying to but you should visit /ck/ every now and then, it's occasionally informative and their webm threads consistently make me lose my shit.

Play with the clit, but don't overstimulate it. If she's not into that, dig a couple fingers in there and gently dig upward into her G spot. All throughout, play with the nips, most women love nipple play (any woman worth a damn, that is). Slide it in gently after she's good and primed, slowly thrust deeply for a while and work your way up to the faster pumps. If she's not a one pump chump, after you make her cum she'll want to keep going. Switch up positions or back off to a 69 or something and go to town. Mix it up. Women love spontaneity. They also like being treated like whores, usually, so throw in ass slaps and similar "harsher" play. Blow it directly into her pussy without a condom because that feeling in the world is unrivaled, then take her to get the morning after pill if you don't want to play The Waiting Game.

get the younger ones im mid twenties talking to a 19yo