>movie about teenagers
>being a virgin is seen as a big deal
Movie about teenagers
imagine still being a virgin, haha
t. virgin
It kind of is. I felt like I lost it late at 16. Why not just have sex?
hollywood created the hookup culture
what the fuck has this world come to where every year the """""required"""" age for virginity loss gets lower? soon if you're still a virgin before you can even cum, it'll be a big deal
I went to HS in 1999-2003. 16 was normal but much later would've started to be weird. Sexual maturity is like 13-14. Why does this bother you so much? Just have sex. Or if you aren't interested in sex, stop complaining about other people having it.
>sexual maturity is like 13-14
Good grief.
Im 24 year old virgin
based and hebepilled
So have sex.
It bothers me because it's fucking ridiculous at this point. Do you really think 13 year olds should be having sex? I didn't even know how to hold a girl at 13.
>just have sex
Can people stop saying this? It's like saying "just get a gf" or "just get a job" or whatever the fuck. If it were that easy, people wouldn't be complaining in the first place.
>Do you really think 13 year olds should be having sex?
I don't know what you mean by "should be." That's a little early, but some of them are. There's no should be. Most people are having sex sometime in high school. The somewhat late bloomers are losing it freshman year of college. After that is weird and shows there's something wrong with you. Like if you haven't ever had a job by 23-24 at the LATEST, there's something wrong. There are just milestones that most of the population follows, and if you fall well outside of the average ages for them, you are an outlier and identified as such. Why is that odd or objectionable to you?
Not him but I was kind of a late bloomer (virginity lost at 22). I really did not care about sex much before that and always found it odd that people put so much energy into complaining about being virgins. Either go get laid or shut up. Bitching and being a bitter incel constantly thinking about sex only results in misery.
This. I mean I get that yeah, you can just go out and pay some hooker but it's really not the same thing. It's like trying to get your first car and just settling for your aunt's stationwagon.
>go on a dating site, OKCupid a decade ago, I guess Tinder or Bumble today (but if non-looks based swiping is still a thing, go with that)
>try to use some pictures that make you look your best
>message a few girls that are in your league or slightly below -- if you haven't had sex you aren't going to get a true qt. Slightly chubby girls that aren't obese should be fine
>message her, don't write textbooks. keep it funny, use lighthearted bantz. Tease her about silly shit (e.g., if she owns a cat ask her make it a running gag that she's a cat lady but don't take it too far where it's mean, or if she has a picture of herself in a black shirt make jokes about how you're into goth girls and make that a running joke)
>after you banter for a few messages, ask for snapchat or phone number
>text her "hey it's that cute guy from OKcupid"
>relatively quickly into that next conversation tell her you guys should grab a quick drink ("nothing serious for the first date in case you're an ax murderer haha")
>meet at the bar, continue the bantz but intersperse it with talking normally about where you grew up, etc. but make jokes and tease her
>find a reason to touch her (e.g., putting your hand on her back when walking out, or on her arm when you're talking) -- escalate this to more if she's receptive
>when you're walking out if you're nervous about kissing just break the ice by joking that she's being awkward and say "you know i'm going to kiss you right"? and then do it, if she's not receptive you'll know
>depending on the mood she may make excuses to go back to your/her place ("i'm/you're drunk we should go to your/my place that's nearby to sober up a little before I/you drive" or "i really want to meet your dog!")
It's a meme, homie.
>if she doesn't do that on the first date let it go, take her out again to a movie or something, don't text too much in between dates it breaks the myster
>if she cancels the second date then break contact unless she reinitiates
>on the second date, similar to above -- escalate touching, bantz (i.e., flirt) but be a real person too
>by the second or third you guys will end up at one of your places (she'll probably say something like "i kinda want to go out by I'd be fine just like getting a pizza and watching a movie") then you're in
>when you're at her/your house do the same stuff as above, but especially escalate the touching/kissing
>making out leads to hands under shirt leads to take her shirt/bra off leads to take your pants off (you can put her hand on your cock if she's being slow about stuff) leads to your hands in her pants/her pants off, then you just have sex
inb4 this is boomer "hey ladies" stuff, I've done some variation of this with varying degrees of qts (obviously the less qt the easier it goes, but it's more or less the same routine) and I'm half an autist. Do something like this and you will HAVE SEX.
2-3 dates? wtf i'm not spending all that time and money on some pussy!!!!!!
Sneed
25 and never really cared about sex but would like to not be a virgin for its own sake (plus not embarrassing myself if I ever find a gf), anyway I'm thinking about buying a whore when I'm in Amsterdam next month, is this a bad idea? They're pretty cheap
I literally could not do a single one of those. Is this really how normalfaggots think? Holy shit you’re like another species. I don’t even have pictures of myself, your first point assumes everyone not only has pictures of themselves, but also “good” and “bad” ones.
I hope you're being ironic. If you want sex with someone without knowing them at all, get a hooker. Even if you're paying, she's spending time and money too. You don't think she's shopping and shit before going on your dates to look nice for you? I didn't say buy her a fancy dinner, I said go out to a bar for a quick drink or a movie. If you can't spend $50 for pussy that's actually into you, I don't know what to say to you.
this
Yeah. If you're 25 then let's just be honest, you're not gonna get some naturally any time soon - or ever really. Paying a whore for some mediocre sex just for the sake of it would be a real waste.
I said TRY to have good pictures. If all you have is a selfie, then what can you do? The first few times I've done this my profile pics were literally a selfie and a cropped pic my mom took. Point is, if you're taking a selfie then take a dozen and pick the best one, work with what you have.
Dude get off the computer and get a life
>Paying a whore for some mediocre sex just for the sake of it would be a real waste.
It's mostly for experience and just to not be a virgin in my late 20s/30s, plus I also just need to get it over with to not think it's a big deal in regards to future dating
>just go outside bro and be yourself bro
That's a pretty sociopathic rationalization
No, just go outside and be someone who isn't autistic
Fuck off
I told you how to have sex above. What's the problem?