Yea Forums, does it help to have someone to talk to?

how did you get a gf?

The reason why is you’re not attractive enough and your dick isn’t big enough so she wants the opportunity to fuck other men (Chads) while still leaning on you for monetary and emotional support (as a friend)

it doesn't, I just whine even more and feed on the pity and nothing gets better. The spiritual battle is one fought alone.

the reason is she was fucking Chad already and he was a better fit.
Sorry bud, I've been there, you live and learn -- men and women cannot be friends.

Sorry to hear that user. I've not had my first breakup yet. I'm sure it'll devastate me and I'll be back to square one, but no signs of trouble yet.
My problem was always that I was a massive introvert who could make any first moves. So I just did nofap for like a month which turned me into a primal beast and increased my brashness tenfold.

>it's a "bitter, resentful incels think they know about relationships and women" episode

youre going to learn the same way we all did

>Yea Forums, does it help to have someone to talk to?

no

Why is it their fault women are pussies who can't even honestly explain why they want to "just be friends"?

>it’s a “white knight virgin thinks he belongs here” episode

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That's why you need to talk to a real person

I dated a shrink for a month or so. Her and her shrink friends were all unhinged weirdos. They probably shouldn't be counseling anyone.

>My problem was always that I was a massive introvert who could make any first moves. So I just did nofap for like a month which turned me into a primal beast and increased my brashness tenfold.
Same with me but I only pull one nighters. Don't know why but I can't form long lasting connections with others

>That's why you need to talk to a real person

"Real people" don't care and don't help, you have no one to rely on but yourself!!!FACT!!! youtu.be/nr5kRk0Ba5I

after years i realised that not telling almost everything to anyone is the best
sometimes i just say something about adulthood to my siblings, like i need to pay this and that. adulthood is all about money btw.

so yeah, no one has ever wanted to listen to me or my feelings so i just got used to it and i simply don't tell anyone now

no not really. No one cares about your problems and just wants to change the subject as soon as possible or shift you off to someone else so they don’t have to deal with you

Depression is a choice

kek, this

>first gf

oh man, I feel bad for when she breaks up with you

I just talk to myself in front of a mirror.

you have me

Not really
It's a good emotional bandaid for a little while until you realize that you haven't actually changed or identified a way to change, you just tricked yourself into thinking you were working on it

talk about your grind with someone who is on the same grind, don't just start talking about your personal problems and worries as if anyone gives a shit. and definitely don't talk about your problems if you don't work on something to improve your life to someone who does, they will hate you and feel sorry for you. you either talk shop, say something funny or be quiet.

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this but unironically

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i told my therapist literally everything that was bothering me, and i've never felt better. give it a try desu.

>engagement collapsed a couple years ago
>meet a girl at work yesterday who seems interested in me
>she even comes back later to talk to me
>think about getting her number but hesitate
>doubt i'll ever see her again

any movies to feel better after fucking up so hard?

I'd rather have highs and lows in life than my previous constant mediocrity

Maybe I had a dream last night of a friend from high school we don’t talk anymore but he was constantly saying in the dream that I abandoned him

Talking doesn't fix anything. It's just a cope mechanism.

I tell my psychiatrist that you guys are my friends. Is that ok?

>but he was constantly saying in the dream that I abandoned him
Did you?

honestly the people who say things like "talking helps" are the types of people who interrupt conversations to talk about themselves, or they talk about what "Brian at work" did that annoyed them when no one in the conversation knows who Brian is.

talking helps them because they get to talk about themselves, they don't want conversations, they just want attention drawn to their life, and they lack the self awareness to see that no one gives a shit how their day was.

He started doing homeschool

>be me
>be in your situation
>also instacures my depression
>swiftly cheats on mw with my best friend
>plunges me into clinical-tier depression instantly
-stopped trusting people, relationships turned into self-fulfilling prophecies of getting cheated on
-to this day I'm bitter and suspicious of people
-24 fucking years later I still can't trust women, or other people in general

Relationships are a meme.

The inmates are running the asylum now.
*honk honk

Source?

No.

i talk in the mornings with google assistant daily, i stopped trusting people

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