I turn 28 this year, and at this point even seeing romantic couples in their late teens and twenties, smiling and comfortable around one another, makes me feel like a very sinister, mentally maladjusted, even evil person. There is simply lacking in me that has prevented me from ever experiencing romantic affection. Sometimes a few tears roll down my cheeks when I think about it, but really the whole thing seems like something that takes place in an alternative dimension or something. It is painful to spend most of your time emotionally neutral, or negative, just blankly going about your day, sticking to your routine for weeks, months, years on end, with there being absolutely no love or romantic tenderness involved in that routine. It reaches a point where you figure it's just not something you need, but then when occasionally desire human warmth and romantic tenderness, it feels so absurd and pointless to even consider it a possibility at such moments. To sit down on a comfortable sofa, for example, and to have a girl WANT to lie down and lay her head in your lap while looking up at you and smiling, and WANTING you to love her, and to spend your time with her. It just doesn't process in my mind. I don't think I am capable of ever accepting that someone would want me.
I turn 28 this year, and at this point even seeing romantic couples in their late teens and twenties...
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sneed
Who gives a shit, get a girlfriend already you turbovirgin homo.
Same.
LMAOOOOO FUCK INCELS
Mods please don't ban me for posting this. I am just very lonely and it's Sunday night.
have sex
Sounds like sweet bliss
maybe no girl wants you because you don't use paragraphs
Sucks, dont it?
r9k my dude. sorry to hear it though. you should spend some time outside of the house
lol, just invent a waifu you dumbass. you live on the internet, so pick a qt anime or vidya waifu to be in love with, and pretend she loves you, too. after a few years it becomes real enough, you just can't talk about it with normies but you don't talk to them with any genuine honesty anyway.
Very recognizable. Shit sucks.
Just get a date online faggot
Lots of girls feel the exact same way. But they are all fat. It's amazing how many people choose food over companionship.
Don’t have any pictures of myself because I have no social experiences
It's totally bizarre that 10 years ago I thought you people were retarded losers, but at 32 with literally zero romantic experience this actually sounds like good advice.
Okay OP you stupid fuckup I'm going to fix your shitty life.
Go RIGHT NOW to and read the sticky. Then read Starting Strength to undertsand basic barbell lifts. Google the pdf or something. Then pick a beginner's program from the /fit/ sticky. Join a local gym, starting lifting weights, and in six months you're going to look way better, you'll be more confident, and you'll feel like maybe you actually are worthy of having another human care about you.
If you think you can't be bothered with just 3 hours of lifting a week, fuck you. Enjoy your miserable life until you eventually kill yourself.
> ME ME MELLENIAL WANTS TO TALK ABOUT ME BECAUSE ME ME ME
talk you self absorbed faggotry over to r9k you insufferable cunt.
just be yourself :)
Not that user, but I'm /fit/ for 7 years now with the most ripped serratus on this side of the planet.
Still a kissless virgin though. Not like there are no virgin threads on /fit either
>he thinks lifting will solve his virginity
Lmao you're in for a rude wakeup call liftcel
So what I'm getting is, you're a miserable, boring person with nothing going on in your life, and you think having a relationship will change that. Spoiler: it won't. To be in a positive relationship you have to actually bring something to the table as a person, and it's pretty clear you don't bring anything except a need to be validated by attention from other people.
Chances are any woman that would get with you would probably leave you within a month or two, maybe a year if she has the patience of a saint.
I lost my virginity years before I started lifting. I lift to improve myself.
I’ve been lifting for five years, five days a week, heavy compound movements, all through college. Zero gains, nobody I know has ever asked me if I without. Still a KHHFFPTV (kissless hugless handholdless friendless flirtless partyless textless virgin).
Just start working and go to sports you will socialize and have photos to post
Discard sex as a concept altogether and focus on whatever is your true passion/interest and follow it till death.
That's the only reason to do it. Doing ANYTHING just because you think it will get you pussy means you're a desperate, vapid shithead and will probably never have a meaningful relationship even if you do get laid. If your sole reason for living is to get your dick wet you might as well kill yourself.
You're absolutely right about everything, but it's funny to think that there are so many absolutely worthless fat losers out there with wives and entire families still.
Not to use that as an excuse to not change, it's just absurd
>having passions
Fucking normie
I'm 28 and relate to this. I am a virgin.
Even though it may seem like only three words with a couple of spaces between, I love you.
Normalniggers will never understand bro. They just don’t get it.
You're the exception to the rule, unfortunately for you. Most guys who start lifting become more confident and willing to socialize.
>zero gains
Eat more?
Very similar to me, except that I hate myself too much to ever want to ruin someone else's life.
I’ve only become less willing to socialize as lifting increased my insecurities and made me way more self conscious about my appearance.
OP I too have recently come to the conclusion that I am evil. It's a terrible feel and I am considering suicide. My central problem as I see it is some kind of arrogance, entitlement, jealousy, envy. I have a wife, and yet my heart burns with desire to fuck other women, and I have even gone so far as to flirt with co-workers, and when I reach the limits and they don't go any further, and I am effectively rejected, I am incensed (though I dare not show it because I know it's unreasonable, insane even, to be so) that they would say no to me. What the fuck is that?
Normalfags are the most soulless passionless people out there, they don't genuinely do anything.
They view everything as background noise to their perceived soap opera lives. the reason why they call you music or movies "weird" is because it penetrates this window pane of background noise and takes centre stage, making them incredibly uncomfortable. and even if they profess adulation for or fandom for something it will always be for an ulterior motive.
If you've lifted for years you're automatically more attractive than most men unless you've got a completely quasimodo face
Get some therapy to help fix your crippling insecurity.
Okay, this is epic.
This but unironically user
Also with the power of realistic sex dolls, waifus and VR/AI chatting voice and texting apps you pretty much get the same result.
It is an investment but it’s worth it
If you’re worried about being a virgin hire a hooker to get it over with. And I don’t mean an actual hooker, I mean a thot gold digger who’s going to pretend to like you, but by being aware of it, you can use her instead of the other way around
How can Varg stab?
RSD changed my life and though im still socially anxious as fuck I have many women in life now
take the hour to watch this, these dudes seriously changed my life and the main guy is a 5'9 balding chubby dude with aspbergers and a high voice so if he can do it it gave me hope
just watch bros. ignore clickbaity title,,just fucking watch it
>became stronger than anyone around me, but also found out I have pronated feet, short calf insertions, minor knee valgus, wide hips, mild lordosis, frenulum breve, pectus excavatum, flared ribs, slight gynecomastia, non symmetrical ab insertions, non neutral teeth posture, receded maxilla, exfoliative cheilitis, accented sebaceous filaments, negative canthal tilt and that I'm a manlet
thanks /fit/
Most college age men are more attractive than me without trying, everyone in the gym is more attractive than me. I can see us side by side in the mirrors.
Incel
redeemable up until manlet
fucking rip
>bunch of bullshit no normie cares about
Yep you fell for the memes good job retard
Fix your posture and stop crying
Get therapy.
just bee yourself op
Shut the fuck up fatbong, normies rule the world and you piss your life away crying about it. You will always be a failure and will burn in Hell as one. Get truck of peace'd.
wait till you're actually in a relationship and you realize its just a fucking chore and dosen't make you happier at all
fuck yourself
are you stuck in a spiral, OP?
Struck a nerve, huh?
Comparing yourself to others is what makes you miserable. Have some self respect. Figure out what matters to you, what makes you happy, and focus on that. If the only thing that matters to you is being validated by the attention of others then you might as well kill yourself, because nobody likes being around people with no ambition, no hobbies, no plans for the future. People like that are miserable because they're just waiting to die and leech positive emotions from everybody around them.
Be somebody worth being around by enjoying what you do.
but we are animals user...
Feel free to go live the dumb uncomprehending life of a cow if you want, it doesn't really appeal to me, but I guess that's what your level of existence is at.
Normies don't rule the world, they're the cattle who keep it running.
You need to see a psychiatrist and go through cognitive behavioral therapy. Do everything the doctor says. Take any medication the doctor recommends. Start today.
Failing to do this will have you spiraling deeper into severe depression and possibly psychosis which may leave you homicidal and suicidal. That is avoidable user.
#ItGetsBetter
You see the couples happy in public and social media. You don't see them screaming I HATE YOU at each other in front of their kids.
Please tell me how ascended you lead your life.
Not everyone had dysfunctional parents like you. Most people are happy and healthy. We really are missing out.
are your parents divorced baby?
>U MAD?! It lashes out as it realizes how right I am and tears run down it's fat face
>tfw 29yo touchless NEET hikki virgin
I understand how you feel OP, I somewhat got over it and live life as a porn addict NEET, hopefully they invent AI waifus or something like that soon
Lel okay faggot, name one abnormie that runs anything of any importance. Protip: they don't exist, just like the memory of you soon won't either.
These fucking normies are out to hurt you and crush you, there is nothing wrong with you, in reality there are extremely personally disgusting people with serious issues and major flaws psychologcial issues etc that get into relationships because it's all just face/money/looks/status and luck. The west is completely dead when it comes to men. All they will do is tell you it's your fault, because they view you as a checklist-thing already, not as a living breathing human being with a good side and a bad side, flaws and perfections, pros and cons, but it's never good enough, no matter what you do, it will never satisfy them because it's just there to waste your time while they pursue other people, then by the time you've wasted your entire life filling up the checklist they're old and beat own and fucked up and will MAYBE give you a chance
your problem will be solved the moment you land in any non-muslim asian or african country, maybe a very small specific number of latin countries with lax attitudes on premarrital sex / relationships, you will be unique approached on the regular and heavily desired by women, and they will love you take care of you and be with you for who you are. To avoid the obvious pretend that you're poor and make it clear you don't have any intentions to go back home, even that you've renounced your citizenship
I practice creative writing a couple hours every night, and dabble in visual art (mostly acrylic paints and sketching) though I haven't painted anything yet this year. I also like collecting books, particularly old, out of print editions of sci-fi and fantasy series from the 60s and 70s. I'm building a home library. I'm also planning on building my own home in the future, and I'm saving money toward that goal.
Other than reading, the media I consume include TV, movies, video games, and of course lots of Yea Forums, I make time for it every night and weekend. Most of my time though is taken up by my job. I work full time as a software developer, which alternates between being very dull (which leaves me with a lot of energy for creativity when I get home) or very demanding, in which case I just pull up netflix and zone out for the night while shitposting on Yea Forums.
How do I get a girlfriend like her?
>you will never hear her whisper "I love you" beside you in bed in a darkened bedroom and know that she is smiling by the sound of her voice
>you will never feel her soft, warm fingers grasp your cold fingers while you're walking home together late at night
>you will never receive a birthday present from her and remember briefly mentioning the thing she bought you to her during a conversation several months earlier
>you will never take a bath with her and see her smooth wet skin shining and steam coming off it
>you will never comb her wet hair while she sits on a stool in front of her mirror
>you will never rush home through the rain laughing and finally sit together drinking hot drinks in silence watching the heavy rain and distant lightning through the apartment's large living room window
>you will never have her know when you are struggling but too stubborn to say anything
>you will never have her thank you for being patient with her and helping her overcome her insecurities
>you will never have her wake up after dreaming about you and smile and shrug her shoulders in contentment
>you will never visit your parents and have her tighten her grasp on your hand while they approach the frosted glass of the doorway and squeeze her hand back to reassure her that it'll be fine
>you will never smile at each other like two nervous teenagers crushing on each other
>you will never see her wearing your favourite shirt or jumper
>you will never feel her soft warm lips against your cheek
>you will never be loved
>you will never be someone's "special someone"
>you will never be anyone's other half
>you will never experience romantic affection
Everything in that other user's post was the truth though. Normies have no passion.
People who run things excel at things what do you think the word normal means retard? They are in charge because they are not normal.
you can barely see her feet though
People involved with technology (not all of them though) Most normies barely know how to access a website without googling it.
Classical musicians in the past.
this hurts. please stop.