What went wrong in the creating process?
Why does MCU Spiderman feel..soulless?
Disney
You grew up.
The MCU in general post-2010 is cheap and souless, too focused on BO sales instead of making actually good stories.
Nostalgia
Because they glued him to Ironman
There's not enough TRAGEDY in his life, Uncle Ben isn't even talked about and now two movies in, and 3 crossovers they're trying to shit on his life in the most unrelatable way possible.
Spiderman was always the closest to batman in terms of connection to normal folks, and he might have had super powers but he sure wasn't rich, and they took that away from him. To the point where Miles is fucking more relateable
Because they wanted to make him as marketable as possible, he's less a character and more a focus tested product.
He feels too safe and generic, also he likes his MJ for no fucking reason but that's something most peters share
The whole MCU Spider-Man franchise feels like a weird Frankenstein of the MCU instead of feeling like its own film. Say what you will, but most of the MCU is largely standalone, but these Spider-Man films can't exist without some MCU knowledge. You have to know the Iron Man history, the Avengers history, and Civil War. It's just really irritating how one of Marvel's biggest franchises feels like Disney Channel Movie tier.
MCU feel for the money meme. Honestly, They got lazy. They don't give a shit about quality control anymore. Spider-Man is just a representation of Sony and Marvel collaboration than Spider-Man. It's why they keep centering him around Avengers since making him just Spider-Man means Sony had no reason to loan to Marvel.