What's the point of life? I'm a 30yo virgin who never had a chance to hold a job or a friendship...

well the thing is i was using hyperbole and I probably should have been more clear about that
The point I'm trying to make is that if you aren't willing to put in the effort to change your life for the better then on some level you are okay with how things are and you should focus on that and figure out what it is about your "miserable" situation that you actually like, once you do that you can expand on that and eventually you'll be in a less shitty situation, theoretically
i dunno, it worked for me, ymmv, whateveh

Stop being a useless piece of shit leech. If you feel that you are rotting away then join the army or something, there is always people in need of more bodies. Join an extremist org if you feel like it.. The meaning of life is what YOU make out of it.

You have no friends, like at all?

If thats you in the picture, you have insane potential my friend! start eating more and hitting the gym bro i believe in you, after a few months you will see the results and trust me you will not be a virgin for long, for 30 you look very young, you have good genes.

>it's everyone else's fault I don't work
>it's everyone else's fault I don't have friends
>it's everyone else's fault I don't have a gf
>it's everyone else's fault that I am a loser

There is no point. You have to make the point. Life is shit anyways, so why not set your fears aside and try things out anyways? Go to a bar, hit up the local club, go hiking, anything my nigga. Who cares if you don't succeed in anything, who cares if you get rejected, who cares if that friend abandons you, who cares? You deserve to live on this earth just like any other rich mother fucker. Try to enjoy literally anything before you get old and regret not giving it a chance.

Go find a Church, dude.
You were already told the meaning of Life.

no one is going to help you but yourself. quit feeling sorry for yourself. I am not going to provide any concrete advice because you will just find a way to say it won't work. You should ask yourself what would make you go on the internet and bitch about your life but then refuse to do anything to fix it yourself.

ride freight trains and hold cardboard at busy intersections
bonus points grab an instrument and play it outside of bars on friday and saturday nights
thousands a week right there and the added bonus of seeing the country
if you're scared, take a dog. if you have a car mob around in that instead and hold an empty 5 gallon gas jug instead of cardboard.
can't play an instrument? i learned guitar sitting outside of walmarts. could only play 3 chords for like 5 months straight and i was still getting 80 bucks a day just doing those.
quit holding yourself back.

I don't wear uniforms or work for any governments. The only thing I enjoy is talking about UFOs, Aliens and stuff. Also driving around with my bike. That's it. I don't talk to anyone IRL because I feel like everything has been said already 1000 times.
I do have but the problem is that they have progressed with their lives, have jobs and gfs, children, unlike me.

There's no major common interests no more.

Advice appreciated

Fix yourself faggot. No one is gonna help you so stop moping around and help yourself. It's not hard to do it you just need to dedicate yourself to doing better. Hold yourself to better standards.

hobos have kickass lives. you're probably confusing them with under the bridge tweaker homebums
an honest mistake when you are a perspective-less shut in

why do you look like you're 20 tops? sheesh.

i look 30 but my soul 90

Get education
Make money
Fuck women / program javascript
Move somewhere less shitty

Its not that hard. You lazy bum.

You mean you dont like to wear uniforms or work for the goverment? Joining the military will teach you things which can and will help you in your daily life and your future life. If you like to talk about space stuff then become a person who gets PAYED to do just that. There is plenty of things to do in life and you will not know if you like doing something if you NEVER try it. Stop sitting on your ass and just think of excuses, The meaning of life is YOURS to decide, sure if you want to rot in your basement for the rest of your life do just that...

join the army, become a man. stop blaming others for your weakness.

>join meetup dot com and join some groups get some hobbies

>Go volunteer for different orgs like audobon society or with your church or house of worship

>Attend weekly religious services

>Join facebook groups

>Join your youth group for your house of worship

>talk to your pastor or religious leader that you are looking for fellow young people

>go and take some classes

>get a gym membership try doing cardio and light exercise or try some gym classes

>go to the bar and begin to start small talk with people, ask them "how's your day going" basic stuff

Most importantly lose your time wasting activies like playing excessive video games or spending too much time here. God Speed user I think you will make it cheer up and smile and you are a decent looking young man. I truly believe we are all gonna make it user.

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Grow up retard I'm a cleaner at a hospital and ern 11 Great Britain Pounds an hour, easiest and best job i've ever had and i'm protected from any abuse/discrimination/harrassment because
>le NHS

> or you could live in denmark where 11gbp an hour is a shit wage

not OP but I have tried pretty much all of those and not sure I would recommend them.
Church stuff and volunteering tends to be for older folks. meetup is for lunatics. youth religious groups tends to be all thirsty guys.
the classes are a good idea though.

My dad was in the military. I do have some basic discipline and know how to cook, wash, build/fix something, I'm not a complete retard. I wanted to join the army at age 18 because I was a self hating, weak pathetic kid without life experience. Literally everyone I met who was in the military told me to not go there.

And yes SPACE stuff is what I care about a lot. I spend hours talking about astrophysics in my room.

for a hospital domestic? source or fuck off

If you’re at the bottom you have nothing to lose so literally do whatever you want lol as bad as you think you have it you’re not tied down by all the “normal” shit “normal” people deal with and some of us envy that. Go be crazy on a stupid adventure of a life time you free ass nigger

>I spend hours talking about astrophysics in my room.
actual astrophysics is hard though. not sure if you have a scientific background or if you are more into the human interest/scifi/science journalism side.
but it's good to know your self. maybe that's a clue in how to proceed.

my best friends I met at meetup its fun and ive had sex with many cute girls there

I have a huge pool of friends I met from there, fb groups, /soc etc.

All you need is one other outgoing guy friend or ideally two and you can both make a bunch of friends or hit on girls.

at least thats how it is here in Florida(the best place to be rn in the whole country :) )

Are you the user from yesterday? I thought it was a regular slide-thread but that user said he was into astrophysics too

the meetups around me are like the atheists and there is a beer brewing one and some other technical ones and it's pretty much all fedoras. It's probably because of where I live. your story sounds like a dream come true.

I've been a nerd all my life. And this year I've been dubbed wizard. It's hard but it's interesting AF. There's a huge disclosure movement going on rn.
Just not sure how to make money with it

all im hearing from you is "i dont want to do anything but sit in my basement and jaw jack at people over webcam why cant i get paid for this"
have you considered suicide?

I think you should force yourself to be exposed to new things because there isn't much money in being a no one who talks about UFO disclosures.

m.youtube.com/watch?v=AxNX_0GgZMM

Life is often what we make of it. Right now you’re carrying a negative and pessimistic outlook, which is understandable given then abuse. Have you ever sought therapy for that? Sometimes facing those issues is the first step toward healing. You seem intelligent and observant, so you can develop new skills if you try. What are some things you’re interested in?

Min wage is 128 dkk
11gbp is 97 dkk

A therapist tells you how shitty your life is. That's it. It's called reflection. At the end of the day it's up to you what you do with it.
I've taken anxiety pills . The worst is over. I need to get out of my parents house.

You have access to the internet and all of the knowledge and information man has ever known since the dawn of time
Learn something, get good at it and make money

Nerve gas

Based crusty street punk.

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A subpar therapist only does something like that. A good one, or at minimum a competent one helps you develop the skills to help yourself. At the end of the day, yes, it is up to you to make changes. Someone else can’t change you.

Hey man, youre mentally ill and thats why youre suffering.
Get a good psychiatrist and get ready to fight your demons.
Its the only way for things to get better.

Take it step by step and dont be worried if it takes years. Going in and going all the way right off the bat is a sureway youll fail.

Youre 30 dude, teenagers think thats old, but youre relatively young.
Make your 30s your best 10 years. You dont need to have everything sorted.

If you killed yourself already, I wouldn't have had to stumble across this pathetic, waste of time bullshit. And now I'm annoyed and compelled to respond. You're wasting everyone's time and bothering people. Kys and let the world be a better place. Now fuck off

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My reply to this was

Me, me, me, me

Life doesnt revolve around you, dipshit.

>need to get out of my parents house
and herein lies the problem. you've made yourself too comfy sitting around your internet alien hugboxes.
why would you change when you have everything you want already?
go binge intervention and cringe at how like a junky you are

If you're this weak yngmi. Parts of normal life are harder than sitting in moms basement being a neet. If you can't even manage that then you need to remove yourself for the betterment of our species.

Does UPS still pay for some school if you work part time loading/unloading trucks?

Could be a start if that piques your interest.

Gf works for a bank and works from home making mid $20/ hrs, if you don't want school, or to go outside.

Either one would likely provide benefits/insurance to help with the cost of therapy, which it sounds like you should look in to.

>You dont need to have everything sorted.

Thanks man. All my life ppl just took from me. I was extorted and looked down on throughout my childhood. I don't even have a phone anymore. I haven't met many ppl that gave me something.

all the more reason to do this

That's some amazing insight, are you some kind of astronomer by trade? I'd love to hear more groundbreaking revelations. Let me grab a pen real fast

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Life itself has no inherent meaning. It's just life. There's plenty of things alive that won't amount to shit. Lifes meaning is only what YOU choose to give it.

Picture this: Who is there in your life from birth to death and controls all your thoughts and movements? You. Ergo, you are your own God. Treat yourself and your world thusly and you'll finally be free.

Ah yes, go be a hobo, beg for money and be a disgusting sight for all those around you. Hell, drag a dog down with you to share in your suffering. What despicable things to suggest. You both should swing, faggots.

Homeless peoples loves suck ass. Was homeless. It's a daily struggle of not getting your shit stolen, not getting your ass beat, finding a place to shit and shower, CONSTANTLY having random strangers treat you like trash, police fucking with you EVERY.FUCKIN.TIME. Best case scenario is you hook up with some other bums your age that aren't completely insane and you guys poool your resources, but that only happens if you have ANYTHING to contribute and when shit gets low it's always every man for themselves. Don't ever try to glamorize being homeless. Anyone who does is lying their ass off.

Start respecting yourself then. The problem is mostly between your ears, so thats where healing starts.

Im actually also heavily depressed, a shutin and all that in my 30s, but since I started therapy a while ago, I'm slowly moving up and it feels great, even though its going slow.

I gave up smoking, but still working on alcoholism.
I cant tell you that itll be easy. But I can tell you that just acknowledging and pinpointing whats wrong with you will feel like a release. TAKE. YOUR. TIME. The worse your mental illness the more time youll need, and you need to respect yourself for requiring that time.

Youre not alone. And besides, girls in their thirties are way less crazy than when as teenagers. You might actually meet a woman that isnt awful.

> Quit holding yourself back
Absolutely, but self sabotage is exactly the problem here

>What's the point of this fucking life??
To survive and do something better than you have been burdened with so far. I mean, all respect to PTSD, but giving up at 30 is pretty fucking lazy if you are able-bodied and not completely mentally dysfunctional.

Literally this is one of the dumbest things I've ever read. Thousands of dollars a week? Where on earth is this possible. There's maybe a handful of locales in the entire country someone could pull this off with enormous foot traffic or something like that, but if it was such a great idea everyone would be out there making 5k+ a month doing this shit.

80 bucks a day outside a walmart isn't allowing him to fucking do anything except get a mcdouble every now and then.

OP, you need to look at coursera. Scrounge up some money and take their IT certification courses. They have a job network when you finish that essentially guarantees you a 50k job after a few months. Ignore the hobo level retards in here.

>regurgitated ignorance based off streetwalking tweaker scum
yawn. life is a big grey area. you don't know shit about shit my dude.
i've been homeless for a decade, it's not my fault you fucking suck ass at it and couldnt think your way out of street shitting in some metropolitan hellhole. most people arent as fuckin stupid as you and can realize that you have legs and nothing stopping you from walking anywhere better
and when you do? surprise surprise, all that bullshit youre shouting about disappears.
i left my hometown with nothing and 10 years later i own 3 acres, 4 vehicles, have 40k put back and a wife and kids.
you can fucking do anything in this world you defeatist fuckwit. quit being a fucking wannabe faggot your whole life and GIT GUD

There's no free will. It can't exist. I don't wanna go into the depth but we can at least free ourselves from other ppl who are controlling us. Its not easy to get though if you're at the bottom.

One of my ideas is to go off grid into the forest alone.

Quit being a victim idiot

My 7 year old daughter has more testicular fortitude than you

funny how all you plebbitors ever do is call fake and gay even when i timestamp wads of cash on cardboard. ive been here for years letting you shit for brains n00bs in on it and this exact shit you just said is why people dont go do it. bunch of shut ins afraid of their own shadow completely convinced their worldview is the only correct one.